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My Boyfriend Isnt ever around
Sorry its long. but you have to know the whole story.
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a week and we have been friends before this for like 3 years or so. And before we even started going out i made him promise we would be friends no matter what. well hes younger than me. And so he does things differently. Well ever since he asked me out i have seen him. he hasnt called or anything. i have had 3 boyfriends in a row. and im thinking i might want to be single but im not sure. because hes really cool and i know how to have fun with him but thats it i guess you could say hes not "boyfriend" like. and hes really not but hes the noly boyfriend iv had in a long time that iv had fun with. Plus theres this guy i met at soccer. (we played agenst eachother in a scrimmage. We both play select for the same club) and that would mean we only really see eachother then. Plus im not sure if he likes me. i think i saw him looking at me at halftime. SO im not sure on what to do.
Please help. All advice is wanted. PLEASE HELP
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ok, go for the boy from soccer. Obviosly he doesnt want to have a relationship. Maybe when you asked him he might have been a little nervous. You can definatly still be his friend but maybe you guys can hold off a bit on the dating stage. Hope this helps! ( and if i was a little too harsh im SOSOSO sorry)
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You cannot really sum up what a relationship will be like in the first week you have been going out. Usually the first couple of days are awkward because you have the person and then you are like, "Ok, now what?" He is probably nervous and does not know what to do. Give him time and things should eventually fall into place. If it does not, and you are not comfortable being with him in that way, then call it quits, because you do not want to lead him on. As for the other guy; do not jump to conclusions with him. Just because he could have been looking at you does not mean he all of a sudden likes you. You do not know him and for all you know he could be a jerk. Try working things out with the guy you have now, and if that does not work out, you can try and get to know the other guy.
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