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I'm a 42 y/o single man. Less then a month ago my best friend died in an accident. I have not been able to come to grips with his death. I have recently been having thoughts of ending my life. This happens whenever I am alone, especially at night. I have lost loved ones before, including my parents and brother all within a year of each other, but I never felt this type of despair, or loneliness. I am afraid I may eventually give in to my suicidal urge. Can anyone help me? (link)
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dont kill your self. you have PLENTY of life to live. try finding someone who your can settle down with. i bet you parents and brother and bestfriend wouldnt want you to kill yourself. i know how you feel, my grandpa died and i felt horrible. but if i can pick up all the pieces in my life, so can you. make a list of things, for example.
1. find some friends/ join a club
2. have a nice relasionship
3. go to my FAVORITE place to get off im stress
4. help the community or tell your story to people with the same problems
5. dont think bad about myself
6. my friends and family really care about me
7. do good deeds
8. tell myslef that i can get through this stage
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OK. So i have problems with likeing guys. i like 2 guys at once and they both like me back. and this always happens to me. and then i end up making the wrong choice. plus i cant stay in a relationship. my friends go out with there boyfriends for like 2-10 months. im a select soccer player who likes emo stuff dresses prep/skater/geek/whatever i feel like. i like to read and i like computers. I love to talk and everything. plus im geeky and a tomboy. SO that makes a very odd person. and i cant find a guy that fits into more than 2 of those things so sometimes its hard. so bottem line is
1)how can i find out what type of guy i want
2)how can i keep myself out of love triangles
3)why does this have to happen!!
Please help. = ( (link)
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Who treats you better? which one do YOU think you like more? or maybe you dont have to date them. Maybe just stay good friends.
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my friends is freakin out and crying and she HATES this one guy. me and him were best friends then i started liking him then she started and she was sayin how she has her whole life. she didnt know him. and everything i would do with him as friends shed say oh yea we did that too or shed go up and grab him sayin hiii. he was gettin really pissed about this because he liked me and i liked him and we were best friends. i said i didnt like him (faking it) then she said neither did she. then she turned me and him against each other. me and him HATED eachother did anything to piss eachother off. we became friends again and are best friends again. shes crying sayin how he was such a bitch to her and did all this stuff. he did nothing to her. he did everything to me but me and him talked alot and forgave eachother. their both my best friends. someone brought up the topic of who likes who then she started cryin goin off about him?! sum it up he did nothing to her. he did everything to me but we made up. she says everything i told her about me and him happend to her makin everyone get mad at him. and shes pissed off saying everyone always confuses her to be me but never thinkin im her. she always has lied alot. dont say im doin this because i want him hes just my best friend which will never be the same again. me and her are really drifting apart not because of this but she dose stuff like this about everything i say or do. what do i do? i just cant even really explain it this might not make sense PLEASE try though. (link)
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its ALL about attention. she just wants you to be there for agai. you shouldnt be made at her, all she wanted was for you to be with her all the time. im not saying its your fault why she is so sad but maybe try to even time out with her. she might be trying to break your friendship apart with the boy again. but just block it out. you choose your friends. your friends dont choose for you... hope this helps
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Sorry its long. but you have to know the whole story.
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a week and we have been friends before this for like 3 years or so. And before we even started going out i made him promise we would be friends no matter what. well hes younger than me. And so he does things differently. Well ever since he asked me out i have seen him. he hasnt called or anything. i have had 3 boyfriends in a row. and im thinking i might want to be single but im not sure. because hes really cool and i know how to have fun with him but thats it i guess you could say hes not "boyfriend" like. and hes really not but hes the noly boyfriend iv had in a long time that iv had fun with. Plus theres this guy i met at soccer. (we played agenst eachother in a scrimmage. We both play select for the same club) and that would mean we only really see eachother then. Plus im not sure if he likes me. i think i saw him looking at me at halftime. SO im not sure on what to do.
Please help. All advice is wanted. PLEASE HELP (link)
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ok, go for the boy from soccer. Obviosly he doesnt want to have a relationship. Maybe when you asked him he might have been a little nervous. You can definatly still be his friend but maybe you guys can hold off a bit on the dating stage. Hope this helps! ( and if i was a little too harsh im SOSOSO sorry)
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ok so my exboyfriend (we're still friends) and my bff wont stop fighting. they just dont like each other. my bff always hits him and makes rude remarks on how dark he is...so of course being a normal guy he has to defend his ego...so he says something rude back...and it never stops ! i've already talked to both of them and my bff wont agree to stop and my ex said that he has to say something back. i cant go anywhere with both of them at the same time. i want to be able to go out somewhere with both of them acting like civilized people. (link)
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try not to have them together. make sure you spend some time with your ex and try to have some time with your bff. If they dont get along why have them together right? and try to tell them thats its NOT good to fight becaseu its hurting YOU. and i both think thats not good. Hopr this helps!
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Hi, well i have this really bad habit of eating loads of food when not needed and i cant get out of it, i find it incredibly hard. I am not exactly fat but i am gaining quite a bit of weight now pretty much everywhere and i have love handles which i HATE so much!! I cant go to a gym yet because im not 16 and i dont like running on my own and my friend who i usually run with is so annoying and never does it anymore. Its just so fustrating i dont know how to control my eating habits and how to exercise and how long to do it for any advice would be great thanks =] x (link)
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At first its REALLY hard to loose weight. When i was a kid i was 140!!!! but, i got that weight off by exersizing. Try not to eat after nine o clock. and then make it 8 o clock and then 7 o clock. and then stop there. Try to go for a run and jog no matter hoe much you dont want to. or you can even buy excersize tapes! Hope this Helps!
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