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my two best friends one exagerating over nothing
my friends is freakin out and crying and she HATES this one guy. me and him were best friends then i started liking him then she started and she was sayin how she has her whole life. she didnt know him. and everything i would do with him as friends shed say oh yea we did that too or shed go up and grab him sayin hiii. he was gettin really pissed about this because he liked me and i liked him and we were best friends. i said i didnt like him (faking it) then she said neither did she. then she turned me and him against each other. me and him HATED eachother did anything to piss eachother off. we became friends again and are best friends again. shes crying sayin how he was such a bitch to her and did all this stuff. he did nothing to her. he did everything to me but me and him talked alot and forgave eachother. their both my best friends. someone brought up the topic of who likes who then she started cryin goin off about him?! sum it up he did nothing to her. he did everything to me but we made up. she says everything i told her about me and him happend to her makin everyone get mad at him. and shes pissed off saying everyone always confuses her to be me but never thinkin im her. she always has lied alot. dont say im doin this because i want him hes just my best friend which will never be the same again. me and her are really drifting apart not because of this but she dose stuff like this about everything i say or do. what do i do? i just cant even really explain it this might not make sense PLEASE try though.
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its ALL about attention. she just wants you to be there for agai. you shouldnt be made at her, all she wanted was for you to be with her all the time. im not saying its your fault why she is so sad but maybe try to even time out with her. she might be trying to break your friendship apart with the boy again. but just block it out. you choose your friends. your friends dont choose for you... hope this helps
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I've been in a similer situation. If you like this guy and he likes you, go for it. If you guys are drifting away you might as well get the guy out of it. MOst of the time i'd say pick friends over a guy but it doesn't seem like you and the drama queen are really friends. If she likes when you come and talk to her streight forward then do that. Otherwise, i think that you should just cut her out and let her be. you don't need to be rude to her. but you don't need to be BFF's either. if she says hi, say hi back. and if she dets mad because you and the guy go out thne i think that that is when you need to explain to her that you really like him. And you need to make it clear that you two [if you still want to be friends] will always be BFF's and that is why she needs to let you go out with him. best friends support each others disicions.
hope i helped!
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