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Ugh This Gets Annoying.
13/f
OK. So i have problems with likeing guys. i like 2 guys at once and they both like me back. and this always happens to me. and then i end up making the wrong choice. plus i cant stay in a relationship. my friends go out with there boyfriends for like 2-10 months. im a select soccer player who likes emo stuff dresses prep/skater/geek/whatever i feel like. i like to read and i like computers. I love to talk and everything. plus im geeky and a tomboy. SO that makes a very odd person. and i cant find a guy that fits into more than 2 of those things so sometimes its hard. so bottem line is
1)how can i find out what type of guy i want
2)how can i keep myself out of love triangles
3)why does this have to happen!!
Please help. = (
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Who treats you better? which one do YOU think you like more? or maybe you dont have to date them. Maybe just stay good friends.
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You could avoid all of this aggravation by being single, which really isn't as hideous an idea as it may seem to you and your friends. Instead of putting yourself out there to get hurt and frustrated, why not be a little more reserved and let the boys come to you? By making them come to you, you're increasing your chances of finding the boy who's right for you.
You're only 13 years old (don't hate me for saying "only," I mean it as a compliment!), you have your whole life to engage in this kind of drama. Although this drama may make you feel older and cooler now, you might have to deal with this frustration for 10 or 20 years (maybe more) to come, and you'll be wishing you'd just chilled out when you were 13.
It sounds like you're a really fun and unique girl. Don't waste your time worrying about boys. Do things that make you happy. In the meantime, your lack of interest in them will only frustrate them more and, in return, make them want you more. You'll be doing yourself a favor by focusing your attention somewhere else. So rock out and show them what they can't have.
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