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what do i do about this guy!??
heyyy everyone im 15 and i like this guy and i love him. hes soo amwazing but anyway ive been wanting to tell him about im afraid because i dont know what he will say and i dont want him to think he has to say it bak because he doesnt i want him to say it when he means it or if he means it now. ive known him for awhile and hes helped me alot and im also afraid that since im his like best friend it would be weird if we dated but i wanna be closer to him than just a friend its confusing lol. i need help!! i dont know if i should tell him how i truely feel or just wait til he says something im not sure which way to go i just dont want to lose him as a friend! ok thanks you guys!! and if you have any questions to ask me like about this if you didntget something message me in my inbox k ( :
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Ask him, "[name], you've become invaluable to me as a friend. I don't want you to be caught off guard and be weird around me when I ask you this question. But, do you think that friendship is the only thing in the cards for us?"
I don't think you should make yourself too vulnerable, unless you are confident that regardless of how he answers you can move on with your life because, you should like yourself more that you like him.
But if the stars aren't in alignment for him, you need to seriously consider growing away from this relationship. Because the truth is you already have romantic feelings for this guy. He may respect you as a friend, but he won't know how to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
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im in the same situation right now =] just tell him and dont be shy with it (are you a shy person?). the worst he can do is say he doesnt like you. at first just kinda tell him that you want to be more than friends but you arent sure how he feels. then just see how he responds =]
thats what i did and weve been together for a couple of months now.
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