Member Since: March 14, 2008
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Last Update: March 15, 2008
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ok so my bf had this one gf a while ago and she was his first gf and first kiss and everything and i got jealous of her because of that. because she also took him to 2nd base. i have gotten over it because i knew he had learned and now understands that he shouldnt have and all that and he told me he never talked to her anymore. he volunteers at this place and she sometimes does too. i havent gone to 2nd with him btw and im his first serious gf and hes mine she was just a fling haha. anyway so he fwd an email to me and fwd it to a bunch of other people and on it i saw her name so idk what to think. he hates talking about her and says he doesnt talk to her or like her and he and i have best friends for a couple yrs before we started dating. i love him and trust him but now i kno he has her email and he fwded that to her so for all i kno he might be in contact with her. what should i do? confront him? he will just say he just was fwding sumthing and doesnt talk to her. idk what to do but i know he would NEVER cheat on me, or hurt me or anything and i trust him but i always have problems when it has to do with her. please help me-i would appreciate it soo much! :] (link)
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If you're not afraid that he's still carrying a torch for this girl, then you need to move on. You seem confident enough to know that he would NEVER cheat on you. If your relationship with him is good, then you need to just let sleeping dogs lay. He's already been there, done that with this girl. He has moved on to you. Let it go OR you will be doing a disservice to your relationship. Don't bring conflict where conflict does not already exist.
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heyyy everyone im 15 and i like this guy and i love him. hes soo amwazing but anyway ive been wanting to tell him about im afraid because i dont know what he will say and i dont want him to think he has to say it bak because he doesnt i want him to say it when he means it or if he means it now. ive known him for awhile and hes helped me alot and im also afraid that since im his like best friend it would be weird if we dated but i wanna be closer to him than just a friend its confusing lol. i need help!! i dont know if i should tell him how i truely feel or just wait til he says something im not sure which way to go i just dont want to lose him as a friend! ok thanks you guys!! and if you have any questions to ask me like about this if you didntget something message me in my inbox k ( : (link)
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Ask him, "[name], you've become invaluable to me as a friend. I don't want you to be caught off guard and be weird around me when I ask you this question. But, do you think that friendship is the only thing in the cards for us?"
I don't think you should make yourself too vulnerable, unless you are confident that regardless of how he answers you can move on with your life because, you should like yourself more that you like him.
But if the stars aren't in alignment for him, you need to seriously consider growing away from this relationship. Because the truth is you already have romantic feelings for this guy. He may respect you as a friend, but he won't know how to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
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