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Strange guy?
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 5:00 pm
Ok, so I met this guy over spring break at the hotel we were staying at. We met at the pool, but by the time he actually gathered his guts up to come get my phone number, he had to leave, so we didn't get to talk much. Anyway, I went back up to my room and he texted me and we talked for like 2 hours. Then he asked me if I was a virgin? and I was like "um yeah, I am only 14" and he was like "awesome". Then he changed the subject. So he kept talking and he was really sweet and everything and kept going "you're so beautiful" and stuff. Then I had to go. Then the next day, we were both leaving, so we were hoping to say goodbye in person and stuff, but things came up, so we didn't get to say goodbye. So I was going ...
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Guys Answer Please.
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 3:17 pm
There's this guy, I have hung out with a couple times. We get along great and everything. I want to get to know him better maybe get into a relationship with him. And he invited me to go to the beach with him. I'm going but that's not the point.
Is it a sign that he likes/trusts me, if he confides in me about how his life is kinda going, like the shit with his ex-gf and family problems. He really opens up to me. Does that maybe mean that there maybe some potential in a relationship?
Would you open up to a chick like that?
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Help I think he has ed at 18!
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 3:10 pm
I think my boy friend has Ed(Erectile Dysfunction)
He has a hernia and had surgery for it last December it was basically on his pevlic area. We we in the mist of almost having sex and then poof it was gone when it flipped over, it really bothers me...he blames the hernia for not begin able to perform. I've asked everyone i know about ti and all the girls are like thats never happened to me, and the guys said wow maybe he was nervous. I've confronted him about in a non-accusing manor and he tells me i would have been his second....I don't see that was a big deal.
Could he have ed, or am i just that unappealing!
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love/freinds... i'l explain better
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 3:05 pm
ok ok ok, i am very wierded out right now. i just went round the girl i likes house, she likes me and i like her, her mum went out for about an hour and all she tried to do was get it on with me, now not that thatsa bad thing normally but shes got a boyfriend allready so 2 things run through my mind 1.) I SHOULDNT BE DOING THIS (which i tryed my best not to no matter how hard it was) and 2.) if shes like this with him why the hell wont she be like that with me if we were to go out???? i'm so exausted and nerve wrecked to think straight at this moment i dont have a clue what i'm doing anywere
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Why can't I move on and forget my ex?
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 2:47 pm
I will not make this a long, drawn out story, but will say that my ex and I dated on/off for 8 months. We broke up Feb 07, but we often run into each other around town. He has asked me to get back together several times, but I'm so afraid that the same things that will happen that led to us breaking up. He randomly texts or calls me just saying "I want you back". All last summer I dated a guy and I thought things were great. We broke up just before school started and now I find out that things weren't what they seemed at all. He was using me and talking to "his first love" the whole four months we were together. Deep down I knew that I was just going through the motions of dating this guy in the summer. I still h...
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I wish he didnt hate meee
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 2:13 pm
Last summer i dated this boy. his name was franklin. i know sounds funny but. i really liked him. i met him at my bestfriends house. we went down to this pond by her house and we seen them and just started talking. then after we got to know eachother he asked me out. i obviously said yes. because he was sooo cute and sweet. then when i left my bestfriends house. for about a month me and franklin were talking alot. then out of no where my bestfriend left a message on my cell phone telling me he said it was over. i had no idea why. then i went on his myspace and seen this girl first on his top and her name was."i love franklin" so i added her being all nosey. we were good friends. until she told him i was talking to her. he called m...
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please help me
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 1:01 pm
ive been going out with this guy for awhile now and he just yesterday broke up with me out of no where and whats worse is he dosent really have a reason he says he still cares about me and has feeli for me but if he dosent break up with me now it will just be harder later i just dont understand and i dont know what to do do i try and win him back and make him realize we really had something or just move on and if i should move on please tell me how
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Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 12:31 pm
Theres this guy I have a crush on, its mutual for sure though. Im running out of things to say when I text him. How can I make him ask about me
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does he like her? does he even like me?
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 12:30 pm
Right, I still have a lot of feelings for my ex-boyfriend, even though we split up about 4 months ago. We've known each other a year now and we've never been 'just friends', you know.
So yeah, he was still in love with me when we broke up, like quite obsessively. Recently I don't think he mentions me that much to other people and about a week ago he told me he's pretty much in love with me but is telling everyone he just fancies me, because they always go on about us and he thought it annoyed me.
But..he doesn't act like it much. He doesn't talk to me that much anymore although that could be because we argue a lot..but I just want to talk to him. And he talks about how he wants to meet hot girls and have sex (not to me...
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Im prude!
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 12:27 pm
Im 14 years old. and im so prude (scared to kiss and stuff) and i was in a relation ship with someone the other day we were going out for a while. he broke up with me because i wouldnt kiss him. He kept asking when hes gonna get his kiss. and i would say idk. and he would hate it . he would get so close to my face to kiss me and i would say stop. Idk what to do. i reallly wanna have my first kiss =/
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Boyfriend or best friend?
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 11:17 am
I have a problem. It seems to be everytime I get close to a guy, like on a deeper level, I end up falling for them really hard. I don't really know how to distinguish my feelings between caring for them alot because they are my FRIEND, or caring for them alot because I actually like them, like them. I have friends that can be really close to guys but they don't get attatched like I do. Right now one of my best guy friends, I am falling for him, but I don't even want to because he's in love with another girl and I don't want to get between that. How can I look at guys as JUST friends whom I happen to be close to, rather than always having a feeling that we could POSSIBLY get together?
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French Kissing.
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 11:05 am
14/f
ohkay theres this kid who wants to make out with me in a hot tub. Im a girl, do I put my lips around his top, or bottom lip.
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My boyfriend's coming over and i dont want it to be awkward!
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 9:31 am
Well, my new boyfriend is coming over to hang out in a few days, and i don't know what we can do together. i don't want to have an awkward or boring time. Any ideas on what we can do at my house?
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my friend's brother?
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 3:26 am
uh, I dont want any comments on how this will screw up my relationship with my friend, but...
I was hanging out with my friends brother at her house, with my friend and a bunch of other girls. I've met him only once- & only saw him for long enough to say hi, but he elects to sit by me, of all people. Very, very close to me. We watched a horror movie first, which neither of us had seen, and made random comments/friendly banter in different languages throughout. Then we got to the chickflick. He gets up, leaves for a little bit, then comes back and sits down right next to me (again) even though one of the girls had left and there was more room further away from me. About fifteen minutes into the movie, he's laying on the floor, tur...
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I WANT A RELATIONSHIP!
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 1:03 am
i am embarrassed... i'm from a small town so most of the guys i know are like brothers and the few -I MEAN FEW- that are left are the ones my parents sheltered me from my whole life (the bad influence they say... the immorals) anyway i moved to the city and i am 21... i know i am weired and my fam is weired... even though i am still kind of sheltered i am willing to venture into the world of dating -without them knowing. thing is how do i find a guy that is interested in me... i'm affraid i kind of give off a "sister" vibe which i can't seem to get rid of!!! helppp... i really like this guy who's a bit older and way more experienced i don't know what to do! i've been dressing up and all and i know i am grabbing people's attentio...
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I miss him sometimes
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 1:00 am
I had a boyfriend of 8 months. My first love. We broke up in September. I was heartbroken. I've learned to let it go and things aren't awkward or anything. But just recently, I've begun to miss him a lot. I think it's because I found out he was moving on to another girl and I was cleaning out my closet and I saw all the stuff he gave me, and I just broke down into tears. I like other people and things, but I always just wonder what I could have changed to make him not break up with me. I want to tell him this so bad because no one else can help me through this. He still knows me the best. I'm not expecting him to take me back, I know he won't but I don't know what else to do. I'm over it, I'm just not fully over him.
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Do guys think about us?
Posted Thursday March 20 2008, 12:45 am
I would just like to know...if a guy & girl is flirting back & forth just at work...nothing serious, but, they are interested in each other...does the guy think about that girl as much as she does about him? Or do guys just think flirting as being friendly & don't give it a second thought?
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im so confusedd. guys&girls read!!!
Posted Wednesday March 19 2008, 11:34 pm
ok well this guy likes me a lot and we always cuddle when we hang out. i feel really safe when im next to him so i love cuddling with him. but when he tries anything else, i back off.
i told him i just want to be friends, and he has told me he wants more.
but now we have been fighting bc ive been with other guys and now he just wants to end our friendship. but i cant stop thinking about him.
i really want him in my life so so much.
could i actually like him more than a friend?
im really scared to think that i do. bc im scared to hook up with him.
i dont know why, hes the only guy i get nervous around when it comes to hooking up.
im soo confused.
can someone help me please?
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So my crush is moving away what should i do? Answer fast ple
Posted Wednesday March 19 2008, 10:48 pm
Ok, So I've been crushing on this boy for about a year now. We got pretty close as friends, and he's very religous and all cus he's dads a preacher. But I'm not really that religious, i dont care what religon anyone is, that's their choice. But to the point; I finally asked him out this one tuesday, he told me that he'd get back to me and such, so i waited. Then he finally tells me no that friday. The next Tuesday that he's moving away. Later I asked him if he would if he didn't have to move away, and he said probably yes. He keeps acting like he likes me and when i ask for a hug he'll give me one. He's extremely kind and I can't help but want to hang around with him as much as possible; which I do. I don't know what to do, I keep falling m...
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a song about being over an ex
Posted Wednesday March 19 2008, 8:43 pm
hey, does anyone know any songs about getting over an ex boyfriend. the general type of music i listen to is alternative, punk, pop,indie,and techno music. my favorite bands are jacks mannequin, dashboard confessional, mayday parade and all time low. thankkk you!
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