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Help I think he has ed at 18!
I think my boy friend has Ed(Erectile Dysfunction)
He has a hernia and had surgery for it last December it was basically on his pevlic area. We we in the mist of almost having sex and then poof it was gone when it flipped over, it really bothers me...he blames the hernia for not begin able to perform. I've asked everyone i know about ti and all the girls are like thats never happened to me, and the guys said wow maybe he was nervous. I've confronted him about in a non-accusing manor and he tells me i would have been his second....I don't see that was a big deal.
Could he have ed, or am i just that unappealing!
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Um. Well. If his hernia is causing it, then it's causing it. If he had surgery in December, then that really wasn't too long ago.
Yah, all the girls say this doesn't happen to them, but have their boyfriends dealt with what he has? Have their boyfriends had surgery in their pelvic area? I highly doubt it.
Don't make a big issue about it. The more you do, the more anxiety it will cause him. More anxiety can lead to him feeling inadequate. Him feeling inadequate... well, good luck getting any.
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Whatever the problem is or was, I don't think you should be discussing it with "everyone" you know. He would be humiliated and angry to find out you are telling people something very private about him. A hernia could be the cause, or it could be a few other things. It really does not matter. It is his problem to overcome or live with how he chooses. If you choose to stay with him, respect him and quit talking about him behind his back. He will talk to you about it more when and if he decides to trust you.
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