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does he like her? does he even like me?
Right, I still have a lot of feelings for my ex-boyfriend, even though we split up about 4 months ago. We've known each other a year now and we've never been 'just friends', you know.
So yeah, he was still in love with me when we broke up, like quite obsessively. Recently I don't think he mentions me that much to other people and about a week ago he told me he's pretty much in love with me but is telling everyone he just fancies me, because they always go on about us and he thought it annoyed me.
But..he doesn't act like it much. He doesn't talk to me that much anymore although that could be because we argue a lot..but I just want to talk to him. And he talks about how he wants to meet hot girls and have sex (not to me) and I know that's meaningless, but still... He has a new number and he hasn't even told me and he's out all the time so I don't see him much. And I just don't feel like he cares anymre.
Then, there's this other girl. When we were going out she told him she was in love with him, and to be honest, it doesn't seem like those feelings have faded. I'm pretty sure he has feelings for her. She doesn't live really close and goes to a different school so he doesn't see her that much. A couple months ago he was saying that he really misses her and wants to see her, he even said she's the nicest person he's ever met.
They've started talking more recently and at the end of his comments to her, he usually puts 'loveyou' or something, which he never does to me. Yesterday I commented, and I know she had too. Then this morning I saw he'd been online, and also that he'd replied to her comment but ignored mine. I mean, me and him are meant to be really close friends, I don't know why he's ignoring me.
He's meant to be friends with her group of friends, but if he's inviting them to something, he always invites her specifically and says to bring anyone. Also, he's pic commented her saying she's beautiful. I know its myspace and everyone pic comments each other like that, but 'beautiful' - you usually only say that when you have feelings for someone. But I know he's had chances to be with her in the past and he hasn't taken them...
So I don't know. Do you think he likes her?
Is he actually in love with me? I mean, he only said it last week, but he doesn't act like it.
And should I talk to him, tell him how I really feel?
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maybe he is just kinda waving her in your face to make you jealous, and make you wonder all these things. or maybe he does actually like her. but mostly, i think he is just using her because she's there and its something to do to waste his time while he can't be with you. you should talk to him and explain your feelings on the situation, that way you can get his. i don't know if he is actually in love with you, only asking will completely determine if he is, but if he only said it last week.. then he probably still means it.
good luck :D
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Awww...Social networking is full of nasty evils - taunting jealousy, hatred and pure evil. Lots of relationships have ended because of the he-commented-on-her-profile-but-not-on-mine problem.
I wouldn't even acknowledge the fact that he's doing that. On the internet, people feel invulnerable because they say things that they wouldn't normally say in real-life.
I do think that he likes her, but I think that you're looking into it too much.
There are a lot of other guys out there and you seem like a very nice girl.
I'd take advantage of that because I think you're wasting your time on this guy.
If he can't acknowledge the fact that you still want to be friends, or even acknowledge your existence, than, honey, you deserve a lot more than that.
If you cannot control the infatuation of his existence (if it really is that strong) then I'd talk to him. You have the right to tell him how you feel and he has the right to do the same. That'll help straighten out a few things so that you can communicate with each other on a different level.
I wish you the best and I trust that you'll make the right decision.
If you need anymore help, feel free to ask. ^_^
Best Regards,
Mariah
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