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So my crush is moving away what should i do? Answer fast ple
Ok, So I've been crushing on this boy for about a year now. We got pretty close as friends, and he's very religous and all cus he's dads a preacher. But I'm not really that religious, i dont care what religon anyone is, that's their choice. But to the point; I finally asked him out this one tuesday, he told me that he'd get back to me and such, so i waited. Then he finally tells me no that friday. The next Tuesday that he's moving away. Later I asked him if he would if he didn't have to move away, and he said probably yes. He keeps acting like he likes me and when i ask for a hug he'll give me one. He's extremely kind and I can't help but want to hang around with him as much as possible; which I do. I don't know what to do, I keep falling more and more in love with him. I think I should tell him, but I'm really not sure at all...and I really really really want to go out with him, so I don't know if I should push that issue...I mean, if I did he might say yes. And he's only moving a hour away from my place, but...I can't drive for about 3 more years. And he's only a month and two days older then me..so he's in the same boat. But I'd get to see him 1 time each year till then...idk what to do...I really want to be his girlfriend and I don't want to lose him because he's became my entire world..I'm so lost and confused..please help, I'm running out of time...I have 2 more months with him.... ='[
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O gosh. I have it worse... This guy likes me, I like him (he hasent asked me out yet, so I cant say were going out yet, but ppl say hes gunna tomarrow(EEEEPPPP YAY!)) He told me today. Gosh, he held me and scooped me up bridal style. Hes moving this Thursday. I dont know what to do... I want to cry! I really dont want him to go... But I geuss he dosent have a choice. Im trying to be strong. I dont want to make it even harder on him... I think I love him though... Its so hard... I geuss he'll be happy though. Please help me...
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wow, are we the same person? ive been crushing hard for a boy for a year now too, i know he likes me, its pretty obvious (however dating is out of the question, he cant date till hes 16) we talk all the time on IM, and as much as we can at school, hes moving away at the end of the year. hes totally got me hooked, i cant stop thinking about him, and i can hardly breathe when hes around. my advice to you (and i guess me too), is i can see you are only 13 (me too, it totally stinks) chances are, there will be other boys. and dont say i dont understand, i do. i dont want to believe that our relationship will die, but thats the cold hard truth, u cant do anything about it, savor your time with him (thats what ill be doing) and then we will have to move on. it sucks, i know.
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i think you should spend as much time with him as possible. flirt a little more, he might ask you out. but when he moves. don't be all like. "you can't leave, iloveyou" just be like. im gonna miss you. and give him a goodbye kiss. i mean, he really seemes like he likes you. i mean, just. have a great time with him while you can.
just make sure that you're comfortable with the choice.
hope i helped,.
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I'm guessing you're either 12 or 13, right? Considering that you have 3 more years to wait till you start driving.
I don't promote dating to younger teens (I'm a younger teen, too), basically because I don't think that anyone, primarily younger teens, are ready to face rejection.
Too many times have my friends gone into a relationship and had their heart broken. They were crushed for days on end.
I don't feel that anyone is ready to face rejection, but we all must at sometime in our life.
Maybe, instead of going out with him, you could ask him if he'd like to become friends.
That way you could both hang out during the weekends and school breaks when you have time to hang out, because of the 1-hour distance.
Maybe you both should get a feel for each other before you start jumping into the realm of dating.
I just hate seeing people jump into dating too quickly, unaware that it forces them to grow up faster when rejection occurs.
I don't mean to break your dreams. I'm just presenting you with reality...
If you need anymore help, feel free to ask. ^_^
Best Regards,
Mariah
UPDATED ANSWER:
Why did you rate my advice a 1? I gave you a nice and thorough answer, and I do not believe that 12 or 13 year olds should date because too often are their hearts broken, effecting them for the rest of their life.
I am very confused, as you didn't even give me a reason as to why you rated my advice a 1.
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