I have a problem. It seems to be everytime I get close to a guy, like on a deeper level, I end up falling for them really hard. I don't really know how to distinguish my feelings between caring for them alot because they are my FRIEND, or caring for them alot because I actually like them, like them. I have friends that can be really close to guys but they don't get attatched like I do. Right now one of my best guy friends, I am falling for him, but I don't even want to because he's in love with another girl and I don't want to get between that. How can I look at guys as JUST friends whom I happen to be close to, rather than always having a feeling that we could POSSIBLY get together?
Additional info, added Thursday March 20 2008, 11:18 am: BTW I'm 15/f. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Manulo answered Thursday March 20 2008, 11:59 am: Well you look at dogs but you don't fall in love with them. You just love them. Friendship is a key in relationships but you have to make sure that there is interest on both sides. If this guy is in love with someone else than do nou put all your time in this. You have to realize that there is a world out there full of guys who will give you that time. Open yourself up a bit because it will show people who you really are and bring that ONE person who is right for you. [ Manulo's advice column | Ask Manulo A Question ]
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