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lesbian/bi/straight idk
Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 3:07 am
ok so im a 15 year old girl and for two years idk
why but i think girls are hot i can't help but look at there bodies and stuff and i actually have and internet girlfriend but i know i like guys to but they don't really you know make me happy sexually i mean i can see myself doing it with a girl and a boy together but i can't with just a boy and idk why i need total help . i know for years ive been tryin to hide that i think girls are hotter than guys but know that im about to be 16 i want to figure out my sexuality and have it out in the open so i can start looking for that special someone so any advice will be greatly appreciated thanks in advance .
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we need time!
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 11:33 pm
15/f
so there is this guy i am talking to, i really like him. but the problem is he goes to another school, so its not like we see eachother everyday, or ever pretty much, and it really sucks! but when can we find time to see eachother? like we have time but we have like no where to chill. so like what are some good places or like idk how can we spend more time together?
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im confused
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 10:35 pm
Okk, so dont judge me for this please i am having enough trouble....(not saying that you would) but there is this boy, and something kind of happened...well we flirted a lot and then he finally kissed me and it was great...but i began to freak out after he went back home..and he got my number and like a month later he began calling me and i didnt want to deal with him so i told him to stop that i didnt want to talk to him....i think i really hurt him,,,,but why did i freak you ask?? ha ha well this is what is holding me back...you see he was kind of...adopted...into my family....I know right?? and that is freaking me out because i feel like crap now and i dont know why. And i had a dream that we was getting married. But that made me freak o...
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New found attraction
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 10:28 pm
I've recently noticed a boost of confidence in my boyfriend. This has in turn caused me to be more physically attracted to him than I've ever been. I've always been physically attracted to him but recently, I can't seem to take my hands off him. He has noticed and is quite fond of me acting this way towards him but is also asking questions. I'mnot sure if I should tell him why I've been acting this way. His confidence started whenhe got his hair cut...it was quite drastic. Is it okay to tell him that the confidence boost is the cause? More than just being generally confident, he's found confidence in his...member as well. This of course is a turn on but I'm not sure if it'san appropriate topic to share with men
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A girl
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 9:17 pm
Okay, There's this girl let's call her NAS. Now I like her and she now knows that I like her. The thing is I've asked her a buncha times if she does like me and she can never give me a straight answer. After 7th period she likes to give me a hug and then she'll hang on my arm or wrap her arm around mine and walk around with me. But she's just so ambiguous and it confuses me. What I want to know is honestly what can I do to get her to give me a straight answer, and do you think she likes me based off of this one tiny tidbit of information?
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help with my love
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 8:36 pm
how do i get my girlfriend back?
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My boyfriend is as stiff as a log
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 5:59 pm
Well, I started going out with this guy a few days ago. We talked on myspace and stuff, but when we finally got to see each other at school,it's all awkward and stuff. He doesn't talk very much, and he's my brother's best friend. Now, this means that I have to start all the topics, which I CAN'T DO. Normally I'm crazy and hyper around my friends and I used to be that way around him but it's different now. It's like when we're together, he just stands there. Is there any way I can loosen up around him? I've tried being with him around my friends but it doesn't work, i'm still really quiet. Help?
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i can't tell if i should or not, please help.
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 5:45 pm
Okay im in a situation ware i've liked this boy for a couple years now, and i know he's liked me off and on last year and we've hooked up a couple times, but thats nothing. Today me and him were talking and he admitted that he liked me again and i told him i liked him. The thing is, he has a girlfriend right now, they only been together about a week, he told me he was gonna dump her and be with me. Im scared, i really think im going to give him a chance because i like him and have, but i just want an opion to see if i shoundlt. He like's sex a lot, and i've only done it once so i'll be scared and he likes sexual intercorse often, so im just nervous, so help!! i just need some easy advice if i should or what do i do.. i'll give feedback .<3
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what do i do
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 5:04 pm
this is so confusing.
ok well i have these two friends that are guys. lets call them A and K their both really good friends and very close to me. i like one of their friends a lot (M) and i told them. They both told me i should date him. but the thing is i have never had a boyfriend let alone kissed a guy. and its not cause they dont ask me its because i dont want to. but i really like this guy. Ok heres where it gets confusing. so a few weeks later me and A are getting to know eachother better and are becoming really close and im scared. evertime im with A i get this weird feeling inside of me and it makes me really happy. im not sure if i like him like that or not. hes a really good friend and i dont ever want to lose that...
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I messed up sooo bad PLEASE HELP
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 4:53 pm
Alright so I have been dating this guy Adam for like a year and a half and we're engaged and have been for a little over 4 months. I love him with all of my heart and I would never hurt him. I also have this other friend Oryan who I don't get see that often. Friday night Adam was busy so I went out to hang out with Oryan. We were sitting in his car having this really intense heart to heart and I was tlaking about all this hard stuff I've been going through and he was talking about his grandfather that just died and then next thing I know he came over and kissed me. I kissed him back, not thinking at all, it ws just a reflex and then I pushed him away. He knew of Adam and said sorry and that was that. Well, my guilt built up and I ended up t...
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My question is about being insecure for your loved one.
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 4:16 pm
Are you insecure about your new relationship about your new boy/girl friend? Do you know if there cheating on you, but they might not or might be?
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how do i get him to see that what he needs is me??
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 4:04 pm
ok i'm going to start off here ...ok i loss my virginity in sep. to this really cute sweet guy.((he's my bff cousin)) and we've had sex together 3 times and out of all this time he never told me that he had a girlfriend my bff and him live together ... to make a longggggg story short he broke up with his gf like a couple of weeks ago and before that i gave him a love letter telling him how i feel about him. but anyways now since he's single he havent said any thing about the letter but i go over there almost every weekend and the tension is there im very shy around him and he know that i love him and i just wanna pounce on him sooo bad ...ok hes single now but i wanna be his girl friend badly... how do i tell him verbaly that i do ... p.s i...
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cant let go
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 3:33 pm
ok i fell in love wit the boy of my dreams last summer. everything was great untill october wen i found out he had been cheating on me the entire time. we broke up and he left me for the other girl. around january we decicded to give it another chance. well i kept acusing him of cheating on me and i had my friends stock him. so we break up again. i miss him so much i dont know wat 2 do should i get back with him or just let it go. he was my first luv and i just cant let go
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is it better to have sex with many partners or just tease th
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 1:46 pm
why is it o.k. for guys to have sex with as many partners as they want to but if girls do the same they are considered "ho's" or "sluts"?
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Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 12:05 pm
okay soo..theres this guy and i really like him. and i wanna hook up with him. but hes like one of my best friends. like we've gone out before/ liked eachother and its always ended badly. ex. liked eachother in 7th grade.. big fight after.. became friends again in 8th grade.. liked eachother.. went out over the summer.. got in a big fight (and i went out with another guy right after him, bad i know).. we became good friends again freshman year.. im pretty sure he liked me again while i had a boyfriend.. then we liked eachother again over the summer but we never hung out.. now we hang out all the time and we're like good friends again and stuff.. and he told me he likes me. and i like him. i dont think we will ever go out because i hate one ...
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How can I get my husband to act more of a man than a teenage
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 10:06 am
I will celebrate my 2nd anniversary in september. I'm 29 and my husband is 35. My husband and I have these petty arguments all the time about how he always put me last or don't help me around the house. For example, we were invited to a relative's house for Easter dinner. I haven't seen these relatives since they moved back to my home town. I made sure my husband didn't have any plans for us, before I gave my cousin the okay for dinner. Well, when Sunday came, he layed around the house napping. I told him I wanted to leave the house at 4pm for dinner and he said okay. As usual, he didn't start to get ready until 5:30pm. This is an ongoing problem, it's like he doesn't hear me or just don't care. Since December we scheduled a date. We would ...
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Should I be worried? Will he cheat on me or leave me for her
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 3:27 am
Female - My boyfriend ran into an old friend not to long ago and I asked one of our friends about her, apparently they had dated and he was obsessed with her. He's been acting weird and giving her things, fighting over her with his friend jokingly (Who had dated her too)"I told her this first" "She likes me more" type of stuff. Doing things like waiting for her, things he's never done with me. He talks about her with me 24/7 and tells me she’s jealous of me. I finally managed the courage and asked him about this "Obsession" and he admitted to it but he said he loves me and not to worry because "She said she wouldn't date him" last time he asked her to come back. I'm wondering if I should worry about...
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Communication and trust issues
Posted Tuesday March 25 2008, 2:39 am
I met this guy 4 years ago. I am in my late 20's and he is in his early 30's. We hit it off. He was everything I was looking for; attractive, charming, sweet, succesful, and loving. 3 months into it he changes into a cocky, disrespectful person. Apparently he had another girlfriend. I suffered as the other woman for almost 3 years. I knew what I needed was to leave, but I didn't. Actually throughout those 3 years, we were on and off. It is now into the 4th year and he has made some changes. I think and feel like he is only seeing me. When we're together, we are deeply in love. We laugh, we enjoy each others company, We are so happy together. And I mean literally "together". He is a very busy guy, so when we're apart...we do not ge...
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This is driving me CRAZY
Posted Monday March 24 2008, 11:42 pm
Ok i know this sounds really weird but is it normal to really really really really like/love someone if you've never even met them like you know alot about them but you've never met them and not like your a stalker or something but like a celebrity that you've read alot about and yeah is it normal? like your completely and utterly in love with and totaly attracted to them like you get butterflies when you hear thier name or thier voice or read somehting about them or see a picture of them or a video with them in it and stuff like that and that you litteraly cant see yourself with anyone else and you dont want to be with anyone else and you want to experience EVERYTHING with them but there that chance of never meeting them i mean what are yo...
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me + my new guy.
Posted Monday March 24 2008, 11:26 pm
ok i really dont know what im doing. a bit of background. my ex and i were together from June '06 - November '07. August of '07 i met a new guy at school [A] and started to really like him. he liked me too; nothing ever happened, we just stayed close friends. the ex sexually assualted me thus we broke up. January of this year me and A started talking more; were basically "together" but without the titles. we became official mid-February. we eased into things because he knew mine and my ex's history and my trust issues. Last week he says he loves me for the first time. i had been thinking about saying a couple weeks before that, but i dont know if it was out of habit or if i realized i was really starting to fall for him. soo i sai...
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