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lesbian/bi/straight idk


Question Posted Wednesday March 26 2008, 3:07 am

ok so im a 15 year old girl and for two years idk
why but i think girls are hot i can't help but look at there bodies and stuff and i actually have and internet girlfriend but i know i like guys to but they don't really you know make me happy sexually i mean i can see myself doing it with a girl and a boy together but i can't with just a boy and idk why i need total help . i know for years ive been tryin to hide that i think girls are hotter than guys but know that im about to be 16 i want to figure out my sexuality and have it out in the open so i can start looking for that special someone so any advice will be greatly appreciated thanks in advance .


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Bestfriendswithimforever answered Wednesday March 26 2008, 7:58 pm:
Sorry to break it to you hunny but I think you are a lesbian, thats ok, but i think your still stuck on guys because that is what you are taught is natural, but dont fight the feeling if you've felt this way for years now. Because your obviously confused I want you, as slutty as this seems, to go on a random date with a guy... dont be too forward but get pretty far, if you think it is too weird and you are sure that guys are not for you, then by all means, be happy with you know you are. In the words of Chris Crocker: " Love yourself, know yourself, because who else knows you better than you." I hope everything works out. Be yourself. BUt first find out who that is. Hope I helped XOXOXOX

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cloudy_conscience answered Wednesday March 26 2008, 11:03 am:
These feelings could simply be curiosity, you may know that you like guys but would like to explore the sex life with girls. This is perfectly normal, it happens to most people around your age. But you may find out as you get older that you really do like girls and thats okay too. You may be bisexual. Just follow your heart and be true to yourself.

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Larry1 answered Wednesday March 26 2008, 9:42 am:
We all have strange feeling growing up.Your still very young and you just haven't found yourself yet.All girls look at other girls,that normal,so don't let that get to you.Having thoughts about how it would be to make love to another girl is also normal.You probably have or will have the same feeling about the guys.Comparing girls to guys,girls are just better looking and have smoother curves than guys.Did you know that 65% of women have had thoughts about having sex with another woman? Only 35% have really done it,15% stay with it and are lesbians.All girls have kissed another female once in their life.I'm not just talking about your mother,aunt sister,cousins at family picnic.So the bottom line is to just relax and don't worry about it.You will be alright,go with the flow.Your not going to hell for it.By the way sweetie,guys have the same problems growing up.

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caitiebug6793 answered Wednesday March 26 2008, 6:56 am:
Only you can say if you're lesbian/bi/straight and nobody else can. Even if you have sex with girls you can still say you're straight and it would true.

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