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im confused
Okk, so dont judge me for this please i am having enough trouble....(not saying that you would) but there is this boy, and something kind of happened...well we flirted a lot and then he finally kissed me and it was great...but i began to freak out after he went back home..and he got my number and like a month later he began calling me and i didnt want to deal with him so i told him to stop that i didnt want to talk to him....i think i really hurt him,,,,but why did i freak you ask?? ha ha well this is what is holding me back...you see he was kind of...adopted...into my family....I know right?? and that is freaking me out because i feel like crap now and i dont know why. And i had a dream that we was getting married. But that made me freak out more. And my friend is all like.."what if you are like in love with him" and i was telling her that i refused to be because of that reason....but she thinks that i might be so now i am stressing out even more...so what is your input and what should i do??
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Okay first of all just breath okay haha. If you love someone there is really nothin you can do about it. When you love someone you just do, you have no control over it. If this boy is adpoted into your family then you really have no blood relation to him and though it may feel awkward there is really no incest going on. You really just have to go with your gut on this one. Try talking to the boy, tell him your worries about it and apologize for freaking and telling him not to call. After that if you still feel as though you can't have that sort of relationship with him at least you still have your friendship =].
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Well, if he is your adopted brother, then this is fine. He's not actually related to you, so it's not ancestory [dating a relative]. Don't worry about him being adopted though. All you need to do is talk to him :] i'm sure he'll understand if you tell him the truth! You might feel guilty because you hurt him, or you're denying your true feelings about him. And the dream is a pretty good indicator that you have feelings for him. Just talk to him and apologize for freaking out and then be happy :] don't let something like this hold you back! Goodluck! :]
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