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Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 9:14 pm
So I had a boyfriend, that i was extremely good friends wtih when i met him last august, well we talked alot and i always went to bed with a smile on my face after our conversations. He asked me out in the beggining of november and i couldnt have been more happier, it was the time i was happiest. he dumped me mid march because hes moving soon and didnt know if he wanted a girlfriend still. so he was known as the goofy player type. and i thought i had changed him from that, but the day after he broke up with me, he went back to his playerish self and was all over girls. now when he broke up wtih me over the phone, he told me he still wanted to be friends. now i see him at dances and gatherings like that, and its so awkward because he is all ...
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about kissing...
Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 9:00 pm
okay, so basically my problem is that i have never kissed a guy, and there's a possibility, however it may be slim, that the time will come soon. if that doesn't work out, i want it to happen asap. so i am hoping you can advice me with any tips when it comes to kissing a guy! i am completely clueless and need help! thank you thank you!
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about a girl that I love with all my heart
Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 8:53 pm
I am deeply in love with a girl. She happens to be my class mate nd we are pretty close friends. I told her how i felt cos i couldnt keep it inside any longer and I thought it was best to tell her. Well she doesnt love me the way i love her for now (Thats wat she said). She says that I am a great guy and all. She just wants to be my friend for now (thats what she said exactly).So I asked her if anything could happen between us in the future (A pretty stupid move i think) and she said probably not. That hurt a lot and it still does.One of my our friend also asked her (when i was not around) if she thinks anything could happen between us in the future. She told him that she doesnt know. she likes me as a friend for now and would like to know ...
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other people are saying.
Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 8:53 pm
17 F
My boyfriend and I are two years apart and we're perfect for each other and age isn't a factor.
I'm African American and he's white and Mexican. He's a dancer and isn't into all the "gangster" stuff (thank God).
I've always dated or been associated with older guys who are black.
So my problem is a lot of guys are still trying to get with me and of course I tell them I have a boyfriend, but they always have something to say. I'm SICK of them talking about my boyfriend and us. Yes, I know they're jealous, but gosh SHUT UP. Whats the best thing to tell them?
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Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 7:55 pm
what's the best way to meet new guys.
i'm 17 and i'd like some more guy friends to maybe start dating.
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Boys boys boys. UGHHH.
Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 6:29 pm
I can never tell if they like me, want to get to know me, or are just making fun of me! or atleast this one guy. hes always asking like when hes around his friends or something that he wants to touch my eyebrows or ears.. and then like when i see him in the hallway or something he wants me to high five him. i dont really mind sometimes but its really confusing since i barely know him.. his friends kinda giggle at it too but idk whether to be too friendly because i dont want to be a fool if hes making fun of me, but if hes trying to make friends i dont wanna just shun a way a new friend. a lot of times when he does it, its really annoying for that annoying reason.. idk how to react! like normally during class hes all quiet and stuff but afte...
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i really like him, but i dont know if he likes me
Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 5:09 pm
16/m gay
basically, i have been crushin on this guy for a while, and i think he might like me back. he is always kinda flirting with me when we see each other, but i am not sure. last night, me and my friend both talked to him on the phone, and i asked my friend what he thought (he is bisexual), and he said that he really thinks he might be. he acts just like both of us did before we would even admit to ourselves that we liked guys. he acts super homophobic, if you ask him how he thinks another guy looks he will say "i dont know, im not gay". i mean, he just acts like he is in the closet. he is a christian, but i was too for a while. i am not sure, he is kind of hot, and i would like to go out with him, but i am not sure he...
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screwed
Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 4:34 pm
alright, i really dont want any rude comments or anything like 'thats bad.' or 'thats unsafe' or something along those lines, please?
so, i met this guy in jan. ive never met him and he lives way up north while i live in the south. we've never met. we met on this website. its like myspace, and its not a dating site. so yeah, he's all over coming down here to meet me and finally be with me and i was all over it too. we've been going out by the way. and uh yeah. he's going to work the whole summer just so he can get enough money to come down here and stay for 2 weeks for my birthday (which is in september) and so yeah, i was total stocked about it, but now that ive actually thought about it, im not so sure i want him to come do...
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how do i get my bf to kiss me?
Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 3:41 pm
what are some moves i can make to get my bf to kiss me?
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I need to pick between 2 guys
Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 3:26 pm
I have dated one guys for 5 years now an he has cheated on me 17 times. I moved out from his house an now i live with someone i really get along with. Everytime i try to break up with the other guy he begs me not to do it that he will change. Please i need so advice on how to tell him i dnt want him no more
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HAVE I HAD MY FIRST KISS?
Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 3:02 pm
Okay... today is my last day at school.
so, my friend and I decide to do cheeks with this guy...
[you know, each get one side and kiss his cheek].
well, we did, an idk if that was actually my first kiss.
he like my friend more... and she has kissed him on the cheek twicce...
this is my first time doing any of that. [no im not ugly]
and, well i just need to know if it counts as being a first kiss.
please help!
ps; my bf doesnt know about it... becuase he left early... but i wanted to kiss him on the lips... maybe i will get a chance when we go back for grades on friday..
love...
Kaila
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msn crush thingy.
Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 1:51 pm
ok so is it possible that a person on msn cant get your message when YOU send it but you can still chat when THEY send it.cos there is this guy and i was like: sorry who are you again?
and then after like 3 minutes he was like:
sorry who are you?
etc.
so we talked but then i asked again who he was and when he answered it sounded like he never got my first message when i already asked.
errm and yeah i started talking to him the next time he got online TWICE but he never ever replied. so is it possible that sometimes you have this person who doesnt get your messages. because i really dont think he hates me lol
but im too shy to talk to him in person, but he DOES notice me alot in schoo...
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breath taking
Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 12:36 pm
Okay so back 2004 my dog died and he was my best friend. Well like all of his things i didnt know where they were (ie collar and leash and harness) and today my grandpa took them out of his closet and was going to throw them away but i told him no and i took them. When i got a hold of his things like something just kind of took my breath. I dont know what happened but it just like knocked the wind out of me, and i felt like crying, which is kind of hard because i gave up on finding that stuff a year after he died. I thought they were gone. But i just dont know what happened and it kind of freaked me out. But at the same time it was comforting. I just like kind of snapped and saw him sitting next to me, but then yeahh...weird i know...im pro...
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wtf how do i react to all of this
Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 2:54 am
so i just recently sent in a question about my bf that broke up with me and said sorry i found a new girl... well we broke up and i texted him and he freaked and said he never wanted to talk to me then tonight he got drunk texted me adn then called me and said he just said all the mean stuff to me because he thinks i have changed and wants me to be the same again and he wanted to show me how he felt when i broke up with him for my ex ... even tho we got back together after that he was still hurt. it was a long time ago kinda. and he said that he loved me. im really confused on how to take this .. wat about the girl he likes aparently and why is it all of a sudden after all the things he said that he says he loves me. then i sent him a text ...
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drama.. boyfriend to enemy
Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 2:52 am
well, me and my boyfriend broke up before, and we offically broke up. the deal is that after we broke up, i was talking to this one guy.. and let's just call him andy. and andy and i usually play around and all that stuff, and apparently my boyfriend who is my ex now, read through my comments. and he thought that me and andy was going on a date or whatever, and i told him that we weren't, also cause my best friend was going to go with us to our friend's orchestra concert. and then my ex said that it doesn't bother him, and it's my life etc. etc. and then later on he said "i have fake friends, my dad hates me, i don't want to see you with another guy, & etc." and later on he called me, and said "i fucking hate you.. why do...
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to tell or not to tell?
Posted Tuesday May 20 2008, 1:01 am
i have this new boyfriend and our relationship is going quite well...my only problem is that we both love to make-out, but sometimes, he's not so great at it.
how do i tell him without it being an awkward situation or hurting his feelings?
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I can't see him that way?
Posted Monday May 19 2008, 9:15 pm
I'm starting to like this guy. I don't know him too well and hes not usually the type I'd go for but he is very nice and friendly. The thing is I cant really imagine him sexually. Like not at all. Does that mean I don't really like him? Do I maybe just like him as a friend? I think that the main reason I cant imagine him like that is because he seems really innocent and sweet. Somehow it seems wrong. And I want to talk to him more. I see him in class but we don't always talk. Anything would help. Thanks~
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I feel like I have to be something I'm not, to get a boyfrie
Posted Monday May 19 2008, 8:01 pm
I'm not a tomboy or anything like that. I love clothes, shopping, and basically being a girl. But I won't deny that I like to get down and dirty and play football with the guys.
But I feel like guys don't want any girls like me. I feel like they only want girls who go around (this is just a stereotypical example, because I can't come up with anything else) going "Omg, I broke a nail!".
I'm not like that, and I don't try to be. But I feel like no guy will ever want me because of that.
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guys
Posted Monday May 19 2008, 5:14 pm
what makes guys like girls? like what do most guys find hot and not?!
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msn crush thingy issue :P
Posted Monday May 19 2008, 2:41 pm
ok so is it possible that a person on msn cant get your message when YOU send it but you can still chat when THEY send it.cos there is this guy and i was like: sorry who are you again?
and then after like 3 minutes he was like:
sorry who are you?
etc.
so we talked but then i asked again who he was and when he answered it sounded like he never got my first message when i already asked.
errm and yeah i started talking to him the next time he got online TWICE but he never ever replied. so is it possible that sometimes you have this person who doesnt get your messages. because i really dont think he hates me lol
but im too shy to talk to him in person, but he DOES notice me alot in school by smiling etc...
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