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i really like him, but i dont know if he likes me
16/m gay
basically, i have been crushin on this guy for a while, and i think he might like me back. he is always kinda flirting with me when we see each other, but i am not sure. last night, me and my friend both talked to him on the phone, and i asked my friend what he thought (he is bisexual), and he said that he really thinks he might be. he acts just like both of us did before we would even admit to ourselves that we liked guys. he acts super homophobic, if you ask him how he thinks another guy looks he will say "i dont know, im not gay". i mean, he just acts like he is in the closet. he is a christian, but i was too for a while. i am not sure, he is kind of hot, and i would like to go out with him, but i am not sure he likes me like that. is there i way i could be more sure if he does or not? and please dont say things like "you need to just let him know how you feel" or "you need to ask him if he does". thank you for your help
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honey i know how you feel i was in the same situation with this girl. now just remember when you were in the closet and think about what actually made you come out.
ok? then just nudge him in the right direction without actually shoving him. if you just go out and tell him he will freak and just stop talking to you and then you will be known as the freaky gay guy who no one wants to have a locker next to in gym. if hes really not gay you'll still have his friendship and if he is you'll have a newly gay boyfriend who you can....."show the ropes to"
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i hope i helped
♥Zoey
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You need to respect what he has said to you and not try to be 'sure' of any of your theories on his sexuality. For the time being, it is none of your bussiness.
He may be gay/bisexual and compensating for it, or he might actually be homophobic. Whatever his reasons are it's pretty clear that he isn't ready for you to make any sort of advance or to hear about your feelings. He isn't interested. He isn't there yet. He isn't ready to talk about it.
Even if he is attracted to men, leave him alone. He will come to deal with it in his own time. There is nothing to gain by you forcing the issue or trying to figure it out. He needs to figure it out first. Give him the space, open support and good listener that he needs to help him figure himself out.
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i think,
you should wait for him to open up to you
tell you if he's gay or not
help him figure it out
i think you should wait.
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it's really corny.
but,
hope i helped.
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destiny
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I would wait for him to open up to you he is gay he could posibbley be shy and mabe denying the fact that he is gay but i would wait for a while give him some sort of sighn that you like him alittle bit more then a friend threw like eye contact with out going to far because that could freak him out and stuff but if nothing happens eventully move on...
GOOD LUCK!!!!
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