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I have dated one guys for 5 years now an he has cheated on me 17 times. I moved out from his house an now i live with someone i really get along with. Everytime i try to break up with the other guy he begs me not to do it that he will change. Please i need so advice on how to tell him i dnt want him no more (link)
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theres no real advise anyone can give you... except me = ]
ok now remember all of the horrible things he has ever done and even after you took him back and just think about how it will happpen again and again until you finally break up with him.
if that doesn't work then try bringing a trustworthy friend who can keep you in check when your giving in. orrrr do it over the phone so you can hang up when he gives you the i'm so sorry i will really change this time bullshark that every guy pulls.
hope i helped.
♥Zoey
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16/m gay
basically, i have been crushin on this guy for a while, and i think he might like me back. he is always kinda flirting with me when we see each other, but i am not sure. last night, me and my friend both talked to him on the phone, and i asked my friend what he thought (he is bisexual), and he said that he really thinks he might be. he acts just like both of us did before we would even admit to ourselves that we liked guys. he acts super homophobic, if you ask him how he thinks another guy looks he will say "i dont know, im not gay". i mean, he just acts like he is in the closet. he is a christian, but i was too for a while. i am not sure, he is kind of hot, and i would like to go out with him, but i am not sure he likes me like that. is there i way i could be more sure if he does or not? and please dont say things like "you need to just let him know how you feel" or "you need to ask him if he does". thank you for your help (link)
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honey i know how you feel i was in the same situation with this girl. now just remember when you were in the closet and think about what actually made you come out.
ok? then just nudge him in the right direction without actually shoving him. if you just go out and tell him he will freak and just stop talking to you and then you will be known as the freaky gay guy who no one wants to have a locker next to in gym. if hes really not gay you'll still have his friendship and if he is you'll have a newly gay boyfriend who you can....."show the ropes to"
lol ; ]
i hope i helped
♥Zoey
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Prom is comming up soon for me and its not that i cant dance... i live in a small town where nobody dances. and i feel that if you go to a DANCE.. you should dance. (prom is the only dance i want to go to because i need to save college money.. so this is my first one).. but i know they will play some rap or hip hop and i want to be able to dance to it. if i try to dance to it "the way i feel" i dont move and i just stand around because i dont get how people dance to that stuff(grinding???? i dont even know what to do with that). can anybody tell me how im supose to dance any moves or whatever that people do or soemthing because i feel REALLY dumb being a girl and not dancing.. please help or explain anything. thanks. (link)
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lol babiii its easyyyyy. you have hips!!!!!! use them!! grinding is just basicly moving your hips and then your date/ friend/ etc following you. if you can't roll your hips just go on youtube or something and watching someone else do it. Thennnn if you have any rythem you can dance. expecially if you can move your hips. now again youtube is a savior you can learn alot of dances but in the end its all about your own creativity. heres the key thing you can pull the shuttiest or stupidest dance move but if you have the right(i can do this because i'm hot and your not) attitude then you can pull it off. if your latin it usually comes easier but i may b wrong. sooooo just watch and learn.
lol stay beautiful
follexbabii
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practice practice!!! nd parties to see what people think and get more use the feeling isn't a bod idea! = ]
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One guy that's in almost all my classes told me in 3rd period that he doesn't like me, straight up. I have no idea why he would even say that. We barely know each other, and I'm not but not bragging smart and I try to be a perfectionist but i'm not straight up, i just lay behind in like the shadows and am really quiet. He's really quiet too.
I'm sure that everyone probably hates some people for no reasons (we all admit this to ourselves) but it hurts so much that we don't even know each other at all and he just tells me that he doesn't like me. Worst of all, just straight up, face to face. And yes, he was serious.
I'm just so hurt and my esteem went down ten-folds. Is there anything i can do to make myself feel better or anything you can say that will help me feel better? i feel like the world hates me. (link)
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I'm sorry but i do find that quite ammusing. I only find it ammusing becasue that happened to me once. All you have to do is just go back up to him and say hey i don't like you either, smile, and just walk away. Then after that don't look at him and don't achknolege him in the slightest way. If your teachers make you be in a group with him ask them if you can work alone or have a different group, but only do this untill he seems really angry or says he is sorry/ explains why he said it.
knock 'em dead ; ]
folle babii
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don't let this guy make you feel this way. i know that i'm well liked becasue i speak my mind and i'm am one of the most pompus people you will ever meet. just remember that we are all beautiful in some way or another. and going out and getting a new "i want to make him come crawling back" outfit always cheers me up. (so do friends to help pick it out)
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Alroght so, I like this guy named Nick but, he has a girlfriend but, it probably won't last much longer. So, I wanted to become his friend so, that I could maybe have a shot with him. Problem is I don't know how to start a conversation with him. He has a Myspace but, I don't have any classes with him this quarter and next year he's going to a new school. By the way, I know that he loves Volcom the skateboarding company. (link)
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if you don't have anything to start a conversation just get noticed by him and make sure he knows you like him. it will start something with his girlfriend so make sure you know what your doing. if you melt when you with him just get a friend who talks to him and then have her/him talk to him while your there and then jump into the conversation. then you guys can actually start whatever kind of relationship you want.
have fun = ]
folle babii
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Hi…Just to give you a little background on my situation, I am a 22 year old female that has been involved with my 32 year old boyfriend for almost 4 years now. I discovered his online porn collection after about our first 6 months of dating. Now four years later I am still struggling with the same issue. After our first year of dating he moved away for work and things became stressed because of the long distance. Year two he moved even further away creating more stress. So year three I decided to move with him. Long story short, about a month after I moved in he cheated with someone long distance—go figure! I moved out of his house and after about six months we got back together again.
Back to the porn issue, the amount of money he spends on porn is ridiculous. I would approximate 5-6 online subscriptions per month. Keep in mind each subscription is around $29.99. I have tried talking to him about it. Basically all he says is I shouldn’t be snooping through his personal stuff and he needs a visual to aid in masturbation since we are long distance. I can understand the second part but why does he need to continually download more videos and pictures. A couple of years ago I would find his porn downloads and delete them so he purchased an expensive external hard drive just for his porn.
When I look at his porn collection it makes me feel like I will never compare to the women he is fantasizing about. His collection mainly consists of extremely large breasts (DD and above) and extremely large rear ends. I have neither of these things.
Recently I decided maybe since his obsession with porn will not go away I should somehow try to become a part of his fantasy. I took pictures of myself and sent them to him. He claims this will make him stop looking at porn. Later that night I checked his email and he had ordered two more online subscriptions. I already accepted him back after he cheated once and I almost feel like his porn habits are another form of cheating. Should I move on or try to deal with his obsessions? HELP!
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i strongly agree with the last user who answered this question. i do know that pron to some men is a very heard addiction to break, but if he isn't even trying to stop when it is very clear that you are unhappy he doesn't deserve you. many women in this country do not have huge brests or bottoms, and it is ashame the ones that do have stooped to posing for some picture a bunch of dirty men will stare at. you don't need him. i am not sure but you can find someone who actually loves you and thinks of you as a god above all the other beautiful women in the world.
stay beautiful
folle babii
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16/f/wa.
i just started a new semester with all new teachers from last semester and i want all my teachers to like me, and they basically do. but there's this one teacher i feel like i can relate to better than the other ones. probably because shes younger-ishhh.. and i don't know what i should do to get her to like me. because i am going through some hard stuff right now with my family and sometimes i just need someone to listen. i've already kind of confided in her but now it's like weird.. i dont know how to explain it. i know i can't expect teachers to be personal counselors but maybe just a friend. anything i could do to get her to like me?
any advice? (link)
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Well in that case i would go to someone else ( another teacher?), or again make new friends or someone else to confide in that knows what your going through. I mean my family is really messed up and i have a one friend that i don't really talk to much but i'm closer to her than all of my other friends becasue we have gone through the same stuff and we talk about it with each other. I'm sorry that i'm not much of help, but i hope you find someone
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