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I feel like I have to be something I'm not, to get a boyfrie
I'm not a tomboy or anything like that. I love clothes, shopping, and basically being a girl. But I won't deny that I like to get down and dirty and play football with the guys.
But I feel like guys don't want any girls like me. I feel like they only want girls who go around (this is just a stereotypical example, because I can't come up with anything else) going "Omg, I broke a nail!".
I'm not like that, and I don't try to be. But I feel like no guy will ever want me because of that.
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Alright. I want you to think about a few things.
Teenaged guys are STUPID. They don't know what they want in a girl because none of them have enough experience to know what is good and bad in a girl. All they know is what they've been taught by movies and peers.
Second, high school is not representative of real life. You are going to change alot in the next 10 years. You'll only remotely be the same person. In that time, you'll meet all kinds of new people. Also, in high school those "OMG I broke a nail!" girls are easy to impress. You just have to pretend to be a badass. Later in life, they turn into spoiled princess bitches who require lots of money and attention and then cheat on guys who treat them well.
You, on the other hand, will eventually be found to be a catch because you aren't a pain in the ass .
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You're wrong.
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NOT TRUE! my best friend is a girly girl who dresses nice and shops but she also loves to play football with the guys and etc. and she has a boyfriend. not a very good boyfriend but still.
most guys like that because that means when they go and play with the guys and if you come he wont have to worry about you being bored on the sidelines or worry about you crying cause your hair is messed up.
dont worry....theres a different guy for every different girl.
i mean hell, just look at the 800pound women with a 200poung husband that feeds her. haha!
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thats basically called a prep. and yeah a lot of guys at my old school only likes preps. and i always hated them.
if a guy will only like you because of the way you dress or act or talk then hes not worth it. you need to find someone that wont care what you are. they will like the way you dress and the way you talk and they wont mind getting "down and dirty" with you while playing football.
someone like that is out there and they are waiting for a girl who'll beat their ass at football. just be patient!
take care and dont be so down on yourself. :)
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