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about a girl that I love with all my heart
I am deeply in love with a girl. She happens to be my class mate nd we are pretty close friends. I told her how i felt cos i couldnt keep it inside any longer and I thought it was best to tell her. Well she doesnt love me the way i love her for now (Thats wat she said). She says that I am a great guy and all. She just wants to be my friend for now (thats what she said exactly).So I asked her if anything could happen between us in the future (A pretty stupid move i think) and she said probably not. That hurt a lot and it still does.One of my our friend also asked her (when i was not around) if she thinks anything could happen between us in the future. She told him that she doesnt know. she likes me as a friend for now and would like to know me more. And she keeps saying i am a great guy and stuff. The problem is that I cant stop loving her. What am i supposed to do? Does anyone think I stand a chance.
we've known each other for the past 5-6 months only..
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you just got to give her time. But get to know her. I mean respect it. You dont have to stop loving her, you just have to love her enough to give her time.
-hayley
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Maybe she does have feelings for you or may develop them, but doesn't want to dive right into a relationship with someone she has only known for a few months, I think that is very wise. You should just keep hanging out with her and being friends, don't make yourself stop loving her. Maybe sooner or later she will grow feelings or admit to them and you guys can give it a try. But for now your best bet is to just give her some space and keep on showing her who you are. Don't give up on it just yet, who knows what might happen in a month or a year.
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Man, I think you may have a smart one here. Many young folk would have just jumped at this so they could say they had a boy friend, but this one wants to check you out some more, see if your what she wants. This is what you should be doing too, not just jumping on the band wagon. Because you love someone, is not enough reason to become an item, there is so very much more you have to learn about them and yourself.
Stop letting what you feel, or think you feel blind you and look at the person. Allow her to see you, not who you think she wants to see, but who you really are and look for who she really is. You have a golden opportunity here, a girl who wants to be friends, it is the best foundation to build a relationship on. Let it take you where it goes, if it's love, it will stay with you. If it's not, you will have a great friend.
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I think she just needs more time to think about it.She loved you as a freind and when you told her you loved her more then that it wuz something she didnt expect,give her more time and try to get closer to her so she can get to know you more,and who knows?She might end up feeling the same way you do for her^_^
Just dont be discouraged,keep on trying im sure youll get her in the end:D
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I applaud your courage. Not many people would have had the guts to tell someone that they like them so much. Now, if you've only known this girl a few months, you probably don't love her like you think you do. She sounds really nice, especially since she didn't lie and try to use you, but you probably should spend less time around her. I was in love with this guy for four years who didn't love me back and it wasn't until I stepped back and stopped hanging out with him that I noticed how mean he was to everyone, including me. I'm sure your girl's sweet, but you should give her some space and think things through. Don't torture yourself.
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If I had said everything that she said to you, then it would be because i only see you in a friend type way. Stop telling yourself that she may eventually like you. She probably wont. And for your sake it might be better to believe that there is absolutely no way she will ever like you. Try not to be too upset about it, you seem like a great guy and in life it is better to have an open mind. So just open your mind buddy, im sure you will be fine.
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