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shyness


Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 10:31 pm

16/f
Hi! Well I hate that I am so shy the first time I meet someone. Whenever I meet someone for the first time I am ridiculously shy especially when its a cute guy, and I don't really know why because once I know the person I am COMPLETE opposite! Its hard for me to approach a guy that I think is cute the first time I see him, like everyone i guess i get nervous, but i'm just tired of that. Many of my friends can just go up to a guy and say 'hi, i'm so and so blah blahh' but i just cant. I guess my problem is like a lot of other girls i'm afraid of rejection and I am self conscious. with the whole self conscious thing the problem is when i want to approach a cute guy, i get intimidated by other girls in the room who i think are bett...

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she comes backforth


Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 9:24 pm

my girlfriend and I were together for around 4 and a half months. I am just trying to figure out why she randomly is playing mind games in my head for instance flirting or calling me names like honey,sweetie, or baby. Its RARE but she does.
She broke up with me on monday so it wasn't a long time ago or anything. Plus on top of this she isn't even in town and did all this.

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only 2 weeks left


Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 3:13 pm

okai so I only have 2 weeks of school left and i really wanna talk to this guy i like.
he seems like he likes me as well because he looks quite often and always seems happy to see me. the thing is that hes a year above me and we've never talked :P
i get soooo nervous around him .. i cant even look him in the eye when he's walking by me (he always looks at me tho). I can only look at him when hes far away :/// and his best friend used to fancy me but it never turned out good so im also scared to look at him when his friend is next to him :/
i really wanna talk to him on the bus or something but i get sooo nervous, and i really want him to like me (since he doesnt really know my personality too well)
so how can i ...

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my relationship


Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 1:44 pm

me and my boyfriend has been together for a year now. he has changed alot. when he is out with his friends and i call him, he tells me that he is busy and can't talk. but that really doesn't make since to me because he turns around a text me. i feel like if you are busy then how can u take out the time to text me but you are busy. it's takes more time to text then to actually talk to him. so should i suspect that he is cheating. he also acts very differnt towards me too.

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Does he want to use me? (kind of long)


Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 9:47 am

This guy that I met about a year ago got my # and started texting me a lot, but I was already in a relatinship at the time. When my relationship ended, about two weeks later he asked me to hang out with him. Well, it ended up we started dating but only for a month and then he dumped me and gave me a stupid reason for it. We still talked after that, but only as friends.

Just recently, he asked if I was seeing anyone and I told him about the guy I just started dating a couple weeks ago. That's when he told me the "true" reason he dumped me before, in which it was not really his fault, but he was extremely apologetic. And then he asked if we could start over, but I told him I had moved on, and so he said that wha...

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I have become romantically involved with my best friend.


Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 3:56 am

I met her (I will call her Xy) via an old girlfriend, they were best friends and very close. After my ex and I broke up, I maintained a relationship with my friend Xy and we became very close over the past 8 years. I trusted her with everything and she with me. About 3 years back, something happened between her and I, and we were intimate. Even though she no longer spoke with my ex, she still felt a sort of loyalty to her and asked to leave things were they were. We moved on, she eventually got married and we still maintained our friendship. Her marriage did not last, and we some how ended up together again, and things are wonderful in every way. That was until my ex came back from Europe heartbroken and crying and began to call Xy again. X...

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I never expect her to still be flirting with me after i told


Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 3:31 am


When i first met her i began to have butterflies every time i saw her. when we first tease each other and played around my feelings began to grow. when she kept leaning on me i couldnt stop thinking about her. when she gave me pet names i began to blush. she is my frist girl crush. but i couldnt take the confusion anymore. i told her my feelings and she said that she is unsure of her sexuality and not ready for a relationship. i never ask her out but told her that i am bi and i like her. then when i met some guy at a party she got jealous. she said "i dont know if i should be pissed or happy for you" "time will tell for the both of us" i was confused. i ask her if she like me and she ignore the note. i ask again ...

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computer romance


Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 3:24 am

i met this girl on runescape about a year ago and we gave each gave each other a our email accounts so we could talk on msn but we only just started actually talkin at the start of the year and im beginin to like her a bit more than a friend
we talk each hav a myspace account so we can look at each others pictures.
she is a really nice person and the other day she said she knows it may sound weird but she sorta likes me and then she just logged off
she always says stuff like if you dont mind me asking or i know this may sound weird and stuff like that but i dont know how to tell her i like her more than a friend
and a few days after that i want to ask her out but the problem is she hardly goes on her computer but...

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friends we were on a break!!


Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 2:59 am

xan someone xplain to me the we were on a break situation on friends?

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emo teen dating


Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 2:22 am

I want 2 find me a emo boyfriend that's not 18, 21, or 50!! Why is every dating site for adults ect espin.com I hate that site

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HELPPPPP!!!


Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 2:03 am

Ok I really really REALLY want an emo boyfriend but how do I get them 2 notice me, I'm already emo but its just I don't know how 2 talk 2 one and they don't come 2 me so how do I get them 2 come 2 me if I'm alreadly emo

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):


Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 1:47 am

hello .

me and my ex boyfriend broke up exactly a month ago today .

and yes, i am still NOT over him .
and i heard today from his best friend that he likes someone already .

and like i feel like my heart just got torn out .

there's a lot of guys that hit on me, and i always say no just because i'm always thiking about it .

and i dont want a new boyfriend because i don't want to get hurt again .


any help to make me feel better ?

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1 year


Posted Wednesday June 25 2008, 11:20 pm

Hi! okay so on friday it will be me and my boyfriend's one year together:), we decided to make presents for each other so thats not my question my question is is there anything i can do to make our day a little more special? any suggestions would be apreciated. and please do not give me sex advice, i'm o my period so it kida sucks but theres not much i can do in that area.
Thanks a Million

H.

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1 year later...


Posted Wednesday June 25 2008, 10:22 pm

ok...
so i dated my best friend...
and i know your not supposed to...
but i did, and believe it or not, it worked out well.
Unfortunately, after 2 years together, he out of the blue, decided he wasnt sure how he felt anymore, and we broke up.
At first, things were rough, we considered getting back together, and he knew he still had feelings for me.

Here we are, a year later. We are still best friends, and talk every day.
We never got back together, and after that first week, he never told me he loved me ever again.

I have never stopped loving him through it all.

I've seen a therapist, and have pretended its not happening.

I've told him my f...

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So my boyfriend is out of town...


Posted Wednesday June 25 2008, 10:07 pm

Alright, well my boyfriend is out of town for a week (From wednesday June 25 til wednesday July 2) and I think im going to go insane. I mean I do everything with him. I dont really hang out with my girlfriends anymore and we dont really have anything to talk about. So my question is does anyone have any ideas about what I can to to keep busy? I work tomorrow (Thursday June 26), Friday (June 27), Next monday (June 30) and wednesday (July 2) but I only work from 4:30am til 2:30pm so I have from about 2:30 til 10 or 11 with nothing to do. Not to mention the days I have off. I live in a little town where there is pretty much NOTHING to do. So Im kinda limited not to mention I dont have much cash. So any ideas would be greatly appreciated!!
Thanks so much!!!

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Kids dating


Posted Wednesday June 25 2008, 9:38 pm

I have been looking for a website where kids or teens can date online besides espin.com plz help!!!!


grasias****
-cooki39-

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18th Birthday


Posted Wednesday June 25 2008, 8:53 pm

So me and my boyfriend will have been together for about two years when his 18th birthday rolls around (beginning of October), and I have no idea what to get/do for him. Last year I had a pretty nice paying summer job, so I was able to buy him an xbox 360 with a game. This year Ive got another decently paying job, so money really isnt an issue. I just want to do/get something special because its his 18th you know?

Any ideas?

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Aftermath of an Emotional Affair


Posted Wednesday June 25 2008, 5:04 pm

I have received good advice on this matter once before (http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=539914) and I'm hoping to receive some more. So that I don't have to go through everything again, I ask that responders take a look at the above-referenced question. To sum up: I had an emotional affair, it's over now, and I'm trying to repair my marriage and earn back my wife's trust. We have one child.

At this time, we are doing as well as could be expected, and both of us are committed to making things right between us again. As one might expect, though, there are a few problems to deal with.

One is that I can't stop thinking about the woman with whom I had this affair ("Jane"). Part of the reason ...

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scared for a kiss


Posted Wednesday June 25 2008, 4:29 pm

ive only kissed somone with my mouth open probally like twice and it wasnt even for long.
i liek this boy and if i makout with him i KNOW ill be nervous expacally because he has hooked up with sooo many girls. can someone give me some good tecniques i wanna make it memorable and i want him to just want more and something we wont forget for a while type of kiss.
advice please !

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bffs, same boy ?!


Posted Wednesday June 25 2008, 4:20 pm

this might be kinda long so sorry !
alright so, i know this guy and my mom and his mom used to be bestfriends. i didnt even know who he was because i havent seen him sicne i was like 4. so anyways my firend met him at the mall and i hung out with him and stillll didnt relize who he was, he is soooo cute :]. and then i was telling my mom about him and she was all "omg" cuz we figured out like that it was her friends son. i havent talked to him since. but then my other frined that im like BESTfriends with started talking to him. we hungout with him at the mall the other day and i now like him. i havent talked to him online or anythign but were hanging out with him again soon. my friend really likes him, and i know this sounde...

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