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she comes backforth


Question Posted Thursday June 26 2008, 9:24 pm

my girlfriend and I were together for around 4 and a half months. I am just trying to figure out why she randomly is playing mind games in my head for instance flirting or calling me names like honey,sweetie, or baby. Its RARE but she does.
She broke up with me on monday so it wasn't a long time ago or anything. Plus on top of this she isn't even in town and did all this.


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VeNzUeLa answered Friday June 27 2008, 4:44 am:
She is probably trying to keep you liking her, and this shows me that she isn't over you, but loves the idea of keeping YOU under her wing, if you get what I mean... Like she loves the fact that you still like her, well, she thinks you do. If she carries on, tell her you don't like it and she should move on, because you personally don't appreciate her 'loving' words after the realtionship, and it is hard for you to carry on with life if she keeps stickign around, or making herself stick around.

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Cinnamon721 answered Friday June 27 2008, 12:30 am:
Well, one of the first things you need to do, is clear the air between you two. Meaning, find out what the situation is, and if the break up was serious, and true. If she tells you that it has been officially over, then you can move on to the next step. And that is, let her know that you can basically move on, and don't have to pay her any attention. Let her know that her mind games are finished, and she can no longer call you any "pet names", that's for your new relationship.

I hope I helped you. If there's ever anything else you may need advice on, don't hesitate to contact me directly through my email or for faster response, any instant messengers.

Wish you the best of luck with your future relationship with someone who will love you for you, and take you seriously when demanded.

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