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only 2 weeks left
okai so I only have 2 weeks of school left and i really wanna talk to this guy i like.
he seems like he likes me as well because he looks quite often and always seems happy to see me. the thing is that hes a year above me and we've never talked :P
i get soooo nervous around him .. i cant even look him in the eye when he's walking by me (he always looks at me tho). I can only look at him when hes far away :/// and his best friend used to fancy me but it never turned out good so im also scared to look at him when his friend is next to him :/
i really wanna talk to him on the bus or something but i get sooo nervous, and i really want him to like me (since he doesnt really know my personality too well)
so how can i talk to himwithout throwing up in his shoes? hahaa.
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thanks
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Well, I obviously say don't walk up to him and introduce yourself and say you like him, you just think he's cute from what I hear. Try to get to know him as much as you can so you don't freak him out, and so you can be sure he's not a jerk or anything. Do you have any friends that are friends with him? If not, (before you eat a meal) go up to him in introduce youself. I'm sure if you are very friendly and smile, he should do the same back.
By the way, you get out of school really late!!
One last point-- don't worry about the age difference! That doesn't make them any different, they'll just be able to do things sooner, like get their license (I'm not sure how old you are, sorry), and graduate.
Hope that helped! And I know it's hard to tell someone you like them, but whatever happens, you'll be glad you did it.
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If you look on the bright side vomiting on his shoes would be a hell of a conversation starter. You need to realize this guys not going to bite you or treat you badly for introducing yourself.
You're going to need to do so if you want any kind of relationship with him. I mean if you can't do this you won't get anywhere. Talk to your mutual friend and have them introduce you or simply go up to him and say hi I'm so-and-so I'm friends with so-and-so how's about we all hang out some time?
All he can say is no to anything. You might even want to try inviting him to a year end party and organize that. Just remember he's as equally scared of approaching girls as you are him for all the same reasons.
He obviously has checked you out and shown interest by staring at you in the halls and allowing himself to get caught doing it. Just approach him and treat talking to him like you would anyone else as it's no different.
Think of talking to him like you would as president of the U.S. and him needing to hear your message and block out the fear. All that's holding you back is irrational fear of failure or humiliation. Just go for it as it's the only way to have a chance at what you want.
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Honestly the best thing I can tell you to do is to act like he your best friend. Think about it this way, your best friend comes up to you and tells you about how crazy her weekend was or she tells you about her favorite sport. She isn't nervous around you, and thats how you should be around him. Pretend he is your best friend and talk to him about all the things you love to do. Don't be scared, treat him like a friend not a guy, because that will take all the pressure off. Trust me. And one more thing after you are able to talk to him, push him to see how he really feels, because you'll always kick yourself if you don't. You have plenty of time to wonder and say yeah, should have, could have, but if you don't find out youll regret. Take it from someone who did.
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