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Posted Monday June 30 2008, 11:42 pm
ok so i have a problem. i like 4 different guys...im 13/f
guy 1:Andy
there is his kid who went to my school this year. he moved from germany but lived in america before so knew english. well he was in 4 of my classes and at first i HATED this kid. he was sooo annoying and a show off. but then he grew on me and we became friends. later i started liking him. by spring i was IN LOVE with him and would do anything for him if he asked. i got the impresion that he liked me too but i wasnt sure because he could have any girl he wanted...so why me? but anyway after the last day of school when i texted him he replied"save your minutes. dont text me." i was crushed and furious. i sent him a message that said some VERY ...
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VERY INTERESTING
Posted Monday June 30 2008, 10:54 pm
So i kinda like this guy who is 17 and i am 15 and half almost 16. We met at our riding barn so we see each other a lot. A little back story he and I are very close he always teases me about being prude and stuff . Two weeks after we met he began texting me constantly and instant messaging me everyday. He would even apologize the next morning for falling asleep while we texted. We went to a party and I was late and he kept asking my friend where I was and why I was late. So hence he was giving me all the signs that he was crushing on me. But he made it clear that he would never date a girl that was younger then him because he made that mistake with his ex girlfriend. One night we talked for 2 hours straight and he wanted to go to bed a...
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My bf's older.
Posted Monday June 30 2008, 9:56 pm
ok hes only 1 yeah older but still.
im scared hes going to want to kiss me and im scared cause i dont know how..im 13 and hes 14.
like how do i know if he wants to kiss me? and how do i kiss him. like, all the ways to kiss.
lol and please no links.
Thank ya!
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guys point of view????
Posted Monday June 30 2008, 8:14 pm
Well where do i begin?? haha well see i met this boy over the summer when i went to visit my dads, and we hit it off really well. We hung out almost every day. But the thing is, i added him on myspace, and we started talking....there is three scenarios that i want you to read...
1) His "friend" started talking to me and wouldnt tell me who he was. He just said "do you like my friend?" and i was like "my guess is he is in that room with you. who are you" and he was like "i cant say" and i was like "well does ty like me?" and he was like "i cant tell you i just cant..." and i was like "ok its funner that way" and he said "okay i will talk to you later"....<...
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17/f... 8 month relationship... long story
Posted Monday June 30 2008, 6:32 pm
aside from the title.. i seem to be having some relationship problems... after 8 months of fun..it seems my bf and I get really mad with eachother very easily.. we've both grown very sensitive..and both love eachother.. but summer is here.. he lives about two hours away from me..and i feel this might break our relationship.. we wont get to see eachother often.. until school starts ( late august).. and this whole problem looks like we're growing tired of eachother when in reality Im NOT... do you think he is? he says he's not, but he has a tendancy of not wanting to hurt my feelings sometimes... =/ please help... if i'm going to lose him.. i'd rather not but if i do i'd rather end my misery than be even more devastated. thanks in advance
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supposed to go see boyfriend in mexico but he hasnt called!!!!!
Posted Monday June 30 2008, 3:08 pm
Okay so my boyfriend had to leave for Mexico because his aunt had a heart attack and he went down there to take care of her... Well we have been talking on the phone and keeping in touch and I was invited to go stay down there for 5 days when his mom goes down there. Well that was our last conversation and he has not called me since. I have no way of getting a hold of him. Im thinking of maybe calling his mom but it may be difficult because she does not speak English very well and I have no idea if he even called and asked if I could ride with her.... So right now im totally stressing out because I have no idea whats going on! what should I do
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haveing trouble, about to loose it
Posted Monday June 30 2008, 12:16 pm
I met a guy on vacation and we both really love each other n he asked me out I said yes. But I really dono, I love him, but it turned into a long distance relationship and so far I just cant take it. Were total opposites but we both love each other but if I am gona keep getting broken by it and never be able to see him only talk, what is the use. Even last night, he wouldn’t talk to me so him n my bff could text, then talking about each other non stop to me wtf. But then he asked if it was ok if he added her to his myspace an if its ok that he would not call me n I just texted “I guess, bye” “ok well have fun ima proly just go to sleep now bye I love u, night”. They both know I had an extremely bad day and that im bipolar and just...
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Lied about virginity
Posted Monday June 30 2008, 2:00 am
Ok im probaly guna sound like a hoe or a lier but i really promise im not im 13\f and my bf is 15 ok well i really like him alot we met in may and been datin bout a month ok well hes always talkin about sex wich i dont have a problem with cuz it turns me on ok ill get to the point me and him are gunna have sex i told him that i wasnt a virgin even tho i am well i was wondering when me and him have sex will he be able to tell that im not a virgin i mean i think my cherrys poped because im usin tampons and i have to use a large and i still have to change it about every 30 mins and im bout 80 punds so i mean is there anything else that he would be able to tell that im a virgin? please help i no i sound like a bad person but i promise im not. (...
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getting over my ex bf
Posted Monday June 30 2008, 12:36 am
16/f this boy and i went out for 1 yr 4 mo. I was really in love with him. Some things drove me crazy about him, truly, but I was sure I was going to be with him forever, or close to it.
Last weekend he broke up with me. It was unexpected on my side but apparently he had been "done" for awhile. For the past week things have been very amicable between us. We've talked almost every night. We still called each other our pet names like baby and darling. We still told each other we loved each other.
Until today, when his brother convinced him that that's not good for a just friends relationship (in fact, my other good guy friend and I tell each other we love each other all the time.) So he won't say it ...
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date 1, round 2
Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 11:38 pm
I went on a date with this guy and we went to the movies on our first date we had a good time.
Now its my turn to pick what to do or where to go.
I have no idea but it can be anywhere free or cost money. I just want us to enjoy our company and what we are doing.
I havent been on a date since 2 yrs...now what or where do I go!
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i got played.
Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 10:56 pm
so i liked this kid for a very very long time. we use to talk until he got back with his ex. well hes been on and off with her, tellin me how all they do is fight. well one night he wanted to hang out and everything. so i said alright. well him and his girlfriend broke up the day before this night. and well while we were hanging out we had our friends with us his friend and my friend. and like everything was cool, then he started to bring up the past with us how when we were at a carnival we got into this huge fight because i moved on after he did , pretty much something that didnt matter now to me. well i left the room because he pissed me off, then he comes in and is like i care about you i really do. blah blah blah. but really i dont thi...
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GUYS!!!!
Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 10:52 pm
ok so this guy has asked me out at least 4 times in the same semester of school and i said no to all of them and i wanted to say yes but i never had a boyfriend and he has ALOT of experience and i really like him, skool just ended and i found out he is leaving the skool so i still talk to on myspace (btw i never talked to him at skool)so he like says Damn u look fine in that picture and i love it when he says that so like i want to go out with him but he is going to a differnet skool. I want to ask 4 his number but im scared, i also want to ask if he wants to go out sometime but i know he will kiss me and i dont know how i never had a boyfriend
HELPPPP!!!!!
what could i do with him on our first date???
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Me & my boyfriend...pictures
Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 8:52 pm
Me-f,16
him-m, 17
we've been for about a year now but we havent went out alone yet on a date we hang around our homes and watch tv or just do random stuff to entertain eachother. We've only taken pictures together twice now and only got1 good picture i feel bad tho because its our first year i want to have pictures and good memories. We've had very good memories without spending money but i just want to go out and do something (im unable to drive) his dadcalled him a cheap date the other day when was there and he almost started crying which me seeing that made me start crying because i cant stand seeing him sad so i pulled him down on me and told him it was ok we dont have to spend money to have fun and i just held him till ...
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I don't want to lead him on!
Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 8:49 pm
17/f
I really really like this guy at school but I am too shy to talk to him and I don't think he's too good for me anyway...
But anyway, that isn't the problem, one of his friends who is in one of my classes at school has just started talking to me, and I can tell he likes me, I also have always caught him looking at me before he started talking to me. He has only started talking to me within the past week and its very frequent. I would really like to get to know him as a friend because he sounds like a lot of fun and he is really funny but the thing is I can't do it without leading him on. I don't know him well enough to tell him this yet. I don't want to embarrass him by telling him anyway. But I really like his friend so what should I do?
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his personality?
Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 8:38 pm
my boyfriend and i have been dating three years- he's 18 and i'm almost 18. i love him more than anything, and i know he loves me the same. the thing is, he doesn't really show it sometimes. i mean, we cuddle, kiss, fool around and all that, and he is sweet sometimes. but other times, it's like he doesn't even want to express how he feels about me. he's never been the really romantic type. but when we first started dating, he wrote me a song, recorded it to a CD, and made a cute little cover for the case as a present for our one & a half years. (we were sort of awkward for the first few months, haha). and he used to leave me cute messages on my away message, and cute little stuff like that. i leave him very cute emails and comments that...
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i want him so bad,
Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 6:12 pm
ive been dating this guy for 1 month we broke up , over stupid stuff...his x girlfriends are physco ..one try ;d to fight me and the other just completely jelous... and he is goin out wit his x, the jelous one but my bestfriend who lives 2 doors down from him told me that he told her that he doesnt really like her, and that she asked him out and he didnt wanna hurt her feelings and he said yes... and she asked him did he still like me and he told her yea...
but he wont get back wit me idk why? so what do i do?
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An old love
Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 2:57 pm
I have known my ex boyfriend since we were 13 years old (I'm now 22). We dated for 5 years off and on and we were very much in love. We broke up due to the fact that we have always lived very far from each other. Throughout college we kept in touch. I recently just graduated and he came to my graduation (his cousin graduated from the same college as me so he was there really for him). After seeing me at graduation he started to come back in my life more and more. He has been calling me and speaking to me everyday. He just got out of a serious relationship so he would mainly be calling me for advice on his recent ex girlfriend. I am currently in a serious relationship and although I am extermely happy I still have feelings for my ex. He clai...
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What should I be thinking about this?
Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 2:20 pm
hey so i'm sixteen and I am living at my beach house all summer with my older brother. I have a bunch of friends who live here too. One of these friends is named drew. I've known him forever and I used to like him, for like two years. He liked me on and off but he lived an hour away. So we never did anything except cuddle when we were together. He was always really touchy feely with me too. I haven't liked him for about a year and a half. I've only been at the beach for two weeks, he got here a week before me. I was really excited because we were hanging being chill, no sexual tension whatsoever, so i was thinking this summer would be good cause we would be friends. Then last night it got weird. We both were off work and our friends were wo...
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Do I really love him?
Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 1:03 pm
Okay. My first boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now. We are both 14. While on the phone one day he told me he loved me. He's told me that a few times already now. The last time I felt guilty so I said "I love you too." But I've been thinking and while I think he's very amazing and I couldn't be happier going out with him, love is a strong emotion and I want to be sure it's love. There's nothing wrong with him or our realtionship I just don't know if I'm ready yet. Do you think it's love and I should tell him I love him?
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My friend, and Caring Too Much
Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 11:27 am
I used to fancy some guy. I then found my boyfriend, and we're happy together, etc etc. The "Some Guy" was our mutual friend. I even wrote a bizarre story about me, him, and some other of our friends... That stayed a secret, only my boyfriend knows. I keep getting hints that the "Some Guy" (SG) fancied me. I encouraged him, not seriously, but I do flirt with quite a lot of people. Only just now I found out he doesn't like me in that way at all.
And I'm devastated.
Even if he did, I wouldn't date him. But I'd be pleased. My self confidence is poor. I need to know what's wrong with me.
I feel like burning the story... I just hurt in a strange place.... I feel like im going to cry.
Doesn't help ...
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