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My bf's older.
ok hes only 1 yeah older but still.
im scared hes going to want to kiss me and im scared cause i dont know how..im 13 and hes 14.
like how do i know if he wants to kiss me? and how do i kiss him. like, all the ways to kiss.
lol and please no links.
Thank ya!
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Okay well this isnt a problem at all.. the key to any sexual encounter of any sort (including kissing) is doing what feels natural. This is very easy as long as your relaxed. Now he might guide you onto how to do this and in that case he might ask if you dont know how to kiss but it turns out okay. because if he really likes you or loves you he will be cool with fact that you dont know how to kiss. So you just open your mouth and put your tounge in and almost massage his tounge like an your licking an icecream cone. hopefully this helped
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heey no worries. if your boyfriend hasnt kissed you yet, he will soon. but also you have to show signs that you want to be kissed: flirt with him, show confidence. Also, when you guys kiss, you will be in the moment, so close your eyes, lean in (not to forceful) and purse your lips (open slightly). It doesnt really matter what you do with your arms, work off his body actions. he might slightly hold your face, you can slightly hold his, or wrap your arms around his neck, whatever feels right. if he wants to french kiss, again act off him. he will slightly slip his tongue into your mouth and you do the same. keep your mouth open wide, and move your tongue around his, even tease it. remember to swallow so it doesnt get messy, and breathe. it is okay to stop for air. also, you havent mentioned if he has had his first kiss, if so he can direct you, if not you can learn from eachother.
i hope i helped :)
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well if hes older than you he most likely will want to kiss you at some point in your relationship.He will definatly give you signs before he leans in for a kiss like saying things literally like kiss me. he will grab your chin and grab you closer, he might also give you a peck on the cheek when you guys say good bye . as far as how to kiss is very layed back to think to much about it or else it will be uncomfortable. Follow what his lips and tilt your head with your eyes closed. if he wants to make out he will slip his tongue in and if you dont want to just pull away he will appreciate it in the end. if you want to go for it just open your mouth bigger and massage his tongue with yours. hoped i help
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well, its ok to be scared. i mean we all are the first time with the new guy. Especially the first guy lol. You know he wants to kiss you because usually he will try to get you alone and he will stare into your eyes and play with your hair and hold your hand. And your heart will beat faster and faster, until he just kisses you. and its amazing and you will want to do it over and over.
At first i would start out slow. Maybe suck on his bottom lip. BUT gently!! cannot stress that enough lol. dont worry about kissing for the main part, you will probably forget everything you learned when you go for it anyways.
-hayley
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You'll know if he tells you or if he moves in closer to your face.
Here's the link to a question I answered before, and I'll copy my answer so you don't have to follow the link ;]
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I know this sounds really lame, and I'm sure it is ;]
But just go with the flow. I don't really have experience in how to "properly" kiss, nor do I have experience with kissing at all! Can you say prude? ;]
Anyway- if it's your boyfriend/girlfriend- just be honest with him/her. Tell them you're nervous and you don't really know what you're doing. Apparently the people who are less-experienced is a big turn-on to some people.
Do what you feel comfortable with. If something feels awkward or uncomfortable, don't do it. If it feels right, ask the person if they are okay with that, and if they are- then you'll be fine.
There really isn't a CORRECT way to do it. Everyone does what they are comfortable with.
From my weak experience- this is what I can tell you:
1. Don't come on strong- it's really awkward for the other person.
2. Don't slobber all over the other person.
3. Don't stick your tongue all the way down their throat.
My friend on here, Laura, answered a question similar to this, and she gave a great answer. I will copy her answer, but know that credit goes to her.
www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=542699
Honestly, you could read a book about it, and you'd probably forget everything once you went in for the kiss.
Explore. Do what feels right. Make it fun, playful, romantic, whatever you want it to be. Don't make it all about jamming your tongue down his throat, and try not to drool all over him, because it's generally less than desireable to do so.
If you come off as confident it'll be a lot more fun. If all evening you're thinking "Oh my gosh, this is going to be bad" you won't enjoy yourself. Follow his lead at first, if you're truly that nervous.
And really, it's almost impossible to find a truly bad kisser. If anything, they might do something you're not used to; give it a chance before you hate it. Who knows, he might be thinking the same thing right now about you!
Over time, you'll develop your own personal style of kissing/making out, and that's not a bad thing. Do whatever feels good/right to you, and gets a positive reaction. For example, some people love a gentle, or less than gentle, bite of the lip, "necking", and other techniques. Like I already said, experiment & make it fun!
From personal experience I'd advise that you brush your teeth and floss, and have some mild mints with you, like TicTacs. Fruity is usually good, and less overpowering. If you're at a party, don't worry too much about what you're eating if you're both eating the same things, but a huge plate of hummus & extra garlic is a bad choice right before kissing =P. That's where mints come in handy for both of you. Casually offer him one if he's been gorging on something stinky.
Further research, if you want it:
--Jack
(16/m)
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