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Me & my boyfriend...pictures


Question Posted Sunday June 29 2008, 8:52 pm

Me-f,16
him-m, 17
we've been for about a year now but we havent went out alone yet on a date we hang around our homes and watch tv or just do random stuff to entertain eachother. We've only taken pictures together twice now and only got1 good picture i feel bad tho because its our first year i want to have pictures and good memories. We've had very good memories without spending money but i just want to go out and do something (im unable to drive) his dadcalled him a cheap date the other day when was there and he almost started crying which me seeing that made me start crying because i cant stand seeing him sad so i pulled him down on me and told him it was ok we dont have to spend money to have fun and i just held him till he felt better.

-do alot of people not go places alot?

im hoping to change this once get a job and car

-does this make us pathetic?

i love him so much but i wanna go ot and have fun

-I want us too take more pictures but he's not good with like the moving he justlikes to sit there and take pictures so they all look the same? :(

-Is it wrong to compare relationships?

His twin brother and girlfriend have been dating for 2 months now and they go everywhere & see eachoher everyday i during the school year only see him once a week & i cry alot just by hearing of thm beingtogether and me not being able to see him im slowly becoming depessed from justnot seeing himif thats possible. Theylive in the same town tho as i live 30 minutes from them. The fact that they get too see eachother allthe time andthey do stuff like go out to eat and go swimming together atleast once a week and ive only went out to eat once n valentines day with him and everywhere else wih friends & only 2 places this whole year :( makes me sad but it doesnt make me love him less.

-What are some things we could go out and do?


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helpxmexxx3 answered Friday January 9 2009, 8:20 pm:
Me and my boyfriend don't get out too too much.
I mean yea we have gone out lot's when we feel like getting out,
but sometimes its nice to just snuggle up and watch a movie>
But if you want to go out let him no, you can go to the movies,the mall,a park, in the summer the beach or a carnival,use your imagination
and no its not wrong to compare relationships, every ones opened to their opinions right?
(: goodluck

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Advice_Twins answered Tuesday July 1 2008, 7:19 pm:
I agree with the others…. Guys just don’t like pictures of themselves… But I was wondering if you ever thought of double dating with your boyfriends brother. Since they seem to always go out maybe they wouldn’t mind you guys tagging along every once in a while… Ask your boyfriend see what he thinks.

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-Tristen

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cloudy_conscience answered Monday June 30 2008, 3:53 pm:
Most boys just don't like having their picture taken and they usually get annoyed because girls want to take like 3 million pictures just to get the one that they like. There is really nothing you can do about it, play around with him maybe get him to smile in them and make different faces if you can. He may warm up to it the longer you guys date.

As for seeing each other, yes it can be very hard when neither of you drive and live a little way away from one another. Really all you can do is try and maybe get your parents to maybe meet his parents somewhere in between so you guys can hang out a little bit, go to the movies, go to the mall and just hang out and walk around, go to the local wal-mart and just hang out, you don't have to spend money to have a good time with one another. Maybe you can set aside one day a week when he comes to your house, or you come to his and you guys can just watch a movie, pop some popcorn, play video games, anything. You should have fun as long as you are together.

Hope I Helped.

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schwartz answered Monday June 30 2008, 9:05 am:
Boys don't really like taking pictures. That's just how it is. But no, this doesn't make you pathetic. In fact, I spend most of my time with my boyfriend at one of our houses, but there definitely is a balance between time at home and time out. It is not wrong to compare relationships, but remember that each one is unique, and you can't hold the same standards for every relationship. Go to the movies, go to the pool, go to a garden or a national park if you're near one, go to a museum, go to the zoo, go laser tagging, go bowling! Going unexpected places can be really fun, so don't always go to the movies and mall, you know? Good luck

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