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17/f... 8 month relationship... long story
aside from the title.. i seem to be having some relationship problems... after 8 months of fun..it seems my bf and I get really mad with eachother very easily.. we've both grown very sensitive..and both love eachother.. but summer is here.. he lives about two hours away from me..and i feel this might break our relationship.. we wont get to see eachother often.. until school starts ( late august).. and this whole problem looks like we're growing tired of eachother when in reality Im NOT... do you think he is? he says he's not, but he has a tendancy of not wanting to hurt my feelings sometimes... =/ please help... if i'm going to lose him.. i'd rather not but if i do i'd rather end my misery than be even more devastated. thanks in advance
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It is probably a relationship phase, I'm sure of it! The same thing happened to me, and it's been 11 months and we are stil together! :D If it's true love, it will kep you guys strong! If it is infatuation than, you'll know what to do, listen to your heart! My advice is to just try and avoid toics that may lead to an arguement, try kiss and make-up a lil more and just be more loving, it is probably what you may really need right now, the best medicine for the both of you! If you guys have been dating for EIGHT months, it doesn't sound right to just let it all go without fighting to be TOGETHER!
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You know, my boyfriend just turned 22 and I am 19 almost 20, we both go to school together and he lives an hour away from me for the summer and works full time so I never get to seem him. But, I think that it would be good for you if ya'll met up about every 2 weeks because it isn't healthy to be that far away for that long. Distance only makes you stronger, and you will have rough moments..but if he is what you want..you will find a way to make things work!
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I'm going through kind of the same thing myself. My boyfriend & I have been dating for almost 7 months and it seems like we argue and fight over the dumbest things now. We both love each other also, but something just kind of changed with us. What I'm trying to say, is that when your with your boyfriend or talking to him 24/7 the love starts to die. Because you're both probably getting annoyed with eachother & want some space. Just take time to yourself for a while & talk to him a couple times throughout the day. Trust me on this one, because the next time you see him you'll get along & have a wonderful time together. I learned that my boyfriend needs space & I'm the clingy type but just because I love my boyfriend & I love being around him. But I know after a while he gets kinda sick of me being there haha. So I now know my limits. But I hope it goes okay for you! ♥
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I really can't tell you if he IS getting tired of you because I don't know the boy, but when you are in a relationship with someone for a long time you do fight more and things do get more difficult. You both just have to start giving more to the relationship and to one another, you also have to make sure that you are communication; let him know what you are feeling, that way he can maybe help reassure you.
What adds to the difficulty of your relationship is the distance, long distance relationship are 10 times harder than regular relationships, then add the tension of being together a while and it gets tough quick. But if you really care about one another and want to be together then you both are going to have to try and work together to make it work.
Do your best to spend time together, just together, like downtime. Get away from all your stress and just be together. Make a day like and go to his house early, or he can come to yours, and watch movies, play games, just chill out and be together. If all else fails then maybe you guys just need a break, I know thats not what you want but if you both don't start giving it alot then things totally aren't going to work out in the long run.
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