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What should I be thinking about this?
hey so i'm sixteen and I am living at my beach house all summer with my older brother. I have a bunch of friends who live here too. One of these friends is named drew. I've known him forever and I used to like him, for like two years. He liked me on and off but he lived an hour away. So we never did anything except cuddle when we were together. He was always really touchy feely with me too. I haven't liked him for about a year and a half. I've only been at the beach for two weeks, he got here a week before me. I was really excited because we were hanging being chill, no sexual tension whatsoever, so i was thinking this summer would be good cause we would be friends. Then last night it got weird. We both were off work and our friends were working, so we went to the boardwalk to see our friends at work. We hung out there for like an hour till everything closed. Then we went back to his house and went inside. We were watching Harold and kumar and just chilling on the couch. Then he got all touchy feely, and tried giving me a hicky but I told him to get off of me. I wasn't feeling it at all. So I got off the couch and sat on the floor. Then he got on top of me and was all like lets wrestle! And i just layed there cause i figured that would make him get off me. So then he picked me up and layed me on the couch and started kissing my neck and then he was kissing me and trying to make out with me. And i was just like drew stop i have to go. Cause i have a drivng curfew. I really dont know what to be thinking. I dont like him and apparently he likes some other girl who is at the beach for a week. I really dont want to be that girl who he thinks he can hook up with whenever he wants to. I dont know what to do...
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babygirl i say i forget about the guy..
i mean thats so wrong to violate you like that...
if you really truely liked you he would respect you ,,you know?
its not cool that you had to go through that, but your stronger for it, just enjoy your sumner and focus on something else to get your mind off of him,, you seem like a great girl that deserves much more.. so wait for it to come to you...
chanel:)
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Ok...Well...What i would do is tell him you don't have those kinds of feelings for him anymore and you don't like it when it gets like that with you. Just simply tell him your feelings. Good luck! Hope this helps!
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Ello! The best thing you can do right now is nip it in the bud, tell him to stop, and don't sugar coat it. Tell him that the only thing your looking for is a friendship and that no more moves should be made. Tell him that you love him as a friend and it'd be way to weird to hook up with him like that. If he still pursues, just try always being around a group of friends. But you need to let him know that you want no part of that at all.
Also, i don't suggest slapping him if he tries it again, you may not know that he has an anger problem or something and that could only cause him to be more aggressive, be careful!
Good luck!
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It seems really simple.
Sit him down and say If your going to get all sexual when we are hanging out i don't want to hang out with you.
If your willing to respect my boundaries then id love to hang out with you, but i refuse to be that girl you hook up with here.
Don't be afraid of losing this "friend" he wouldn't pressure you into something you don't want if he was a true friend.
Hope it helped.
~InsaneChildz~
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