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bad luck
Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 5:44 pm
15/ female.
hello everyone! well, i have noooooooooo luck what so ever with guys. every guy that i have truely liked, it always either never works, ends bad, or doesnt happen. i don know whats wrong with me!! i know im not ugly cause i have a lot of guys always hitting on me and telling me im pretty but, they always just try to get in my pants, and im not all about that.
i been wanting to have a real relationship for a while now. im sick of just hook ups. and ughh! i don know , i know of a few guys that i would love to go out with, and im cool with them, but idk how to get them to like me.
i don know ! i just need some advice. thank you guyssss
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I Love him but he smokes too much!
Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 5:35 pm
15/f
So here it goes, I am going out with this kid and He smokes Weed and Ciggarettes, I dont like that he smokes but when I look into his eyes I forget about it all, I know I love him with all my heart, but hes hurting himself bad with the smoking. He tells mehe loves me everyday. We have already broken uponce because he doesnt wanna get me into the drugs and ruine my life, but less then a week later we were both depressed and didnt know what to do other then go out again, we were both miserable without eachother! He said hes gonna try to stop smoking, but hes not going to, I can tell. Like I said I love him and he loves me. Im not sure what to do. I cant break up with him I just cant do it, I cant hurt him or myself that bad! What am I gonna do???!!!!
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help please.
Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 5:12 pm
okay. so theres these 2 guys that i like. one of them i've known for like ever, but we are not exactly close. and im never shure if he likes me or not.
the other. i started talking to on the internet. and he lives out close to me. hes really sweet, and he asked me out. i've never actually met him, so i told him that i would have to meet him first.
well today after school. i noticed the first guy looking at me and smiling. but he didnt say anything to me. while the other guy is trying to figure out when we can meet. and im afraid of meeting the 2nd guy and going with him and the 1st guy wanting to go out.
i dont know what i would do. and it scares me. i think that if the 1st guy asked me out. i would extremely...
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18 and never had a boyfriend..
Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 4:00 pm
im 18 years old, female
i've never had a boyfriend before and i'll ive done is madeout with two guys and that was about two years ago. everytime someone hears that i have never had one they're all shocked because everyone tells me im gorgeous (and i do think im pretty, not trying to be conceited at all) its just that i dont know whats wrong with me. maybe i'm too picky but all these guys try to get with me and i always just see them as a friend and never anything more. im scared to kiss a guy or anything because it's been so long and i just dont know. i like this boy right now but has a girlfriend. he tried "fingering" me and i really wanted him too, but i just couldn't let myself do it. i feel so awkward doing that kind of...
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scared.
Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 3:17 pm
14/f
I have been dating my boyfriend for about a week now. The only thing is that i have a moustache that is sorta dark and a lot of people notice it i'm sure. It's really embarrising because i don't want him to see it. I can't do anything about it. I'm not gonna wax, shave or bleach it. What do i do? I'm scared that he will be grossed out by it and break up with me. Help!
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feel loved...
Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 11:31 am
idk why but these past months i have really wanted to feel loved, im really confused why....because before that i was always like 'you dont need a guy to complete you' and 'i am too busy for guys' but like when guys give me attention and ask me out and stuff they irritate me after not long. anyone know why i feel like this???? and what i can do to prevent feeling like this??? and also its wierd one day i feel like this the next day i dont :S
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guy #1, #2, and #3..what do i do!?
Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 12:30 am
Here are the 3 situations I am terribly confused in, I am looking for honest opinions and advice on which is better to persue.
#1
Okay so there's this guy, he's pretty cute, and I sorta like him. We met randomly and it started really fast, something really unusual for me. We've had a couple make-out sessions, and hung out a couple of times and we seem to get along well but there's one problem. He just got out of a 3 year relatioship and isn't ready to rush into another anytime soon. I don't want to be the rebound girl, you know. The thing is, he keeps sending mixed signals. Like he says "i dont wanna rush into anything" and then the next thing you know he is kissing me, and we end up in my bedroom..with the l...
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makeout
Posted Tuesday October 14 2008, 12:15 am
your making out and your like drooping on eachother (lol). how do you prevent it
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He is ignoring my call?!
Posted Monday October 13 2008, 11:09 pm
18/f. I just called my boyfriend because I am freaking out about school work and I need some support. And he sends me to voicemail! I get a text from him five minutes later telling me that he will give me a call later because he is hanging out with his friend Jenny. Wtf?! Couldn't he have at least answered the phone and tell me that instead of ignoring it?! Would any of you like that? Am I making too much out of this?
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ceriousity of a baby
Posted Monday October 13 2008, 11:09 pm
okay, well its kinda like this im sixteen and i dont even know how to feel or were to get advice but last month i was late for my period and i thought i was pregnant and i wasnt and again this month im late and iv been having sex with my amazing boyfriend but i dont think i need to take a test or anyything but for next month i ffear cause i know he ejected in me a few times and he has a daughter already help?
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Stephen
Posted Monday October 13 2008, 10:26 pm
So i am new to my school. Well on like the third week of school i noticed this guy in class named stephen. Well he kept looking at me and well i like it so i didnt complain. Well he hangs around with this girl april alot and it is now the 10th week of school. well i started giving him hugs because well i kinda liked him. everytime we saw each other he would give me a hug. But he does that to every girl. Well last week i added him on myspace and he asked me to do his about me..so i did it and he has a pic of me right above his about me. I felt special but then he had this girl name tiffany do it too. Well I asked him to do mine like 3 days ago and he did. He flirts with me at school telling me that my profile is sexy. At lunch today he came ...
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losing the flame
Posted Monday October 13 2008, 8:45 pm
So, my boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 years on and off. (btw im 17 adn hes 18) so weve known each other forever, and its not like weve dated other people, because we have, we just alwasy wound up together..we even stopped talking for a whole year..
I love him very much, and we hang out everyday which i love, but it seems like thimgs in our relationship have become boring..and i dont wanna let him go, i care about him wayyy too much, so i was wondering if anyone has any suggestions, like how do married people do it and stuff? just i wanna liven things up, both in bed and out of bed, but out of bed prefferably.
k.thx.
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Ugh, boys, bestfriends.
Posted Monday October 13 2008, 8:41 pm
That last one was for the bestfriend, but I honestly don't know what to do. So my bestfriend and I like the same guy, not to be concieted, but I think he like's me more. Age is just a number, but he's two years older. He's way way way more expierienced, and he flirt's with me face to face, but when we're talking online, it's like, ugh! But when he flirt's with me to my face, he always does the same thing with my bestfriend, who's always there. And if it's just me and him joking around, she join's in. Lately, i've been daydreaming about him too, I feel like a pathetic fool ): And i have a problem with always putting other's first, HELP! please <3
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weirded out help????
Posted Monday October 13 2008, 5:23 pm
so this is weirding me out now. theres this gut on my bus every sunday afternoon.
he's quite cute and seems to be my type. (shy, likes books, messy hair, wears hats :D)
and for the past couple of weeks ive had dreams about him while asleep and awake about him being my bf.
its really strange. like if i go to make a drink i'll imagine him next to me talking, joking, laughing and cuddling with me.
in the dreams at nite i feel like he could really know me, understand my and my problems and that i could talk to him about them and he could help me. i dont know what to do about it.
i dont know his name and have never spoken to him. this has never happened before so i d...
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hugeeeeee problem.
Posted Monday October 13 2008, 5:19 pm
Okay! 15/ female.
so i like this guy alot, and he likes me too. we are talking so im happpy about that. but then he has this crazy EX girlfriend that starts drama with everyyyyyyyyyyyyy girl he tries to go out with so me and him were keeping it on the DL. but of course i told my best friends, and now this one girl who is good friends with his EX and is madly in love with him, she found out and told him she knows and bla bla bla, and that i told people so now hes mad at me! and i dont want him to stop talking to me and he is kinda really mad !
pleaseee help! asap
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kiss
Posted Monday October 13 2008, 3:10 pm
16/f
Alright well i have never been kissed before. I just got a boyfriend on saturday named david and i really like him. We "talked" for a month and a half before he asked me out. So, we know eachother well. He knows i haven't ever kissed a guy before and he told my friend that he wanted it to be a good one. Now, i don't know when he wants to kiss because he walks me to my classes and we hug and thats when couples usually kiss but i'm just not sure. I don't know what to do after we hug and i just don't know what to do or how to act or when he is going to do it and i am just really confused and nervous. I'm not sure when he wants to do it or what i should do and i am definatly not talking to him about it. Please help!
My name is rachel.
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What are my chances?
Posted Monday October 13 2008, 2:01 pm
Okay so there's this boy, who I use to like, well we both liked each other, but my "friend" started going with him, although he was still trying to get with me. And so now after 2 years we started back talking on myspace. And I think he still has feelings for me, and I have feelings for him although sometimes he gets on my nerves LOL! but I just want to know how can I know if he likes me, and how can I tell him I like him, without feeling like I 'll be let down by his answer.
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sexual attractions
Posted Monday October 13 2008, 1:55 pm
first off if you read this i just wanna thank you =)
okay this is probably normal..but i always get sexual attractions for my boyfriend and when we make out and stuff i always get extremely wet...i think thats good? however, im so afraid to have sex even though i definetly know we're not gonna for awhile...so is it normal to have sexual attractions yet not wanting to have sex?
also, when alot of people make out the hands move...he kinda just puts his arms around me and they stay there basically the whole time...does that mean anything? i tried moving his hands and he goes with where i move them to but then they just stay there and i want him to know that its okay for him to move them..without tellnig him that,...
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i cant go 5 minutes without talking about my boyfriend.
Posted Monday October 13 2008, 1:17 pm
whenever im not with my boyfriend, all i ever talk about is him. like CONSTANTLY. and im like always depressed when im not with him... is that like, weird?
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Needs to break it off
Posted Monday October 13 2008, 10:53 am
Ok so me and my best friend from college just discovered that we like eachother. The problem with it is he has a girlfriend of two years and he wants to break up with her but he cant for some reason. We've been hanging out alot and its getting harder for me to be around him because i know he still has a girlfriend. He still hasnt broke up with her and i have been wondering why not. What do i do about this situation?
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