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ceriousity of a baby
okay, well its kinda like this im sixteen and i dont even know how to feel or were to get advice but last month i was late for my period and i thought i was pregnant and i wasnt and again this month im late and iv been having sex with my amazing boyfriend but i dont think i need to take a test or anyything but for next month i ffear cause i know he ejected in me a few times and he has a daughter already help?
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As Alin has already stated, there is always a risk of pregnancy when you engage in sex, protected or not.
I'll let you in a personal story to get you to think straight about this.
One of my close friends engaged in unprotected sex. She had a big pregnancy scare. Even though she had received her period, the doctor told her that there was still a chance of her being pregnant. Well, turns out she wasn't. That scared her off of sex for a few months. I suppose it helped that her boyfriend lived out of town.
Well, a few months later, her boyfriend visited & they engaged in protected sex. Yet another pregnancy scare, yet another false positive. This time she figures that she'll be okay, though. She ends up breaking up with that boyfriend and seeing another guy. This past summer (the 2 scares happened in 2007), she actually ended up pregnant. She thought it couldn't happen to her, and it did.
So, think twice before you have sex. If you're not ready to have a baby, you're not ready to have sex.
I don't mean to go on and on about this, but it freaks me out how many girls around my age and younger are asking questions on this site about pregnancy scares, STDs, etc.
Basically, though, to answer your question, YES, you could very easily be pregnant. YES, you NEED to take a test. And stop having sex! He already has a daughter, do you want to end up like that girl's mother?
S_C, 17/f
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Ok, I am not sure what the question is to be honest. If you are asking if you might be pregnant, the answer is yes. If your boyfriend ejaculated in you, of course there is the possibility that you are pregnant. More than that, even if you engage in unprotected sex and he pulls out... there is still the chance that you could be pregnant.
You should get yourself tested as soon as possible. There is no need to delay getting to know whether or not you got yourself pregnant.
The other thing you need to do is stop having unprotected sex. Frankly I have a hard time understanding how you let it happen in the first place, considering that your bf has living breathing proof of what happened last time he engaged in unprotected sex.
I don't mean to lecture you, but you have already been scared once before and did nothing about it. Is it not time you took control of the situation and stopped exposing yourself to the risk of pregnancy (and STDs for that matter).
Good luck.
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