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losing the flame
So, my boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 years on and off. (btw im 17 adn hes 18) so weve known each other forever, and its not like weve dated other people, because we have, we just alwasy wound up together..we even stopped talking for a whole year..
I love him very much, and we hang out everyday which i love, but it seems like thimgs in our relationship have become boring..and i dont wanna let him go, i care about him wayyy too much, so i was wondering if anyone has any suggestions, like how do married people do it and stuff? just i wanna liven things up, both in bed and out of bed, but out of bed prefferably.
k.thx.
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Vary the routine.
Both in bed, and out.
Outside of bed, do something new. Go do something together you've never done before, it can be anything as long as its fun.
Start a conversation about sex. Ask him the following questions, and answer them for him as well.
1) What do you fantasize about?
2) What kind of porn do you watch/like?
3) Is there anything you've always wanted to do, but never been able to bring up?
Communication is always the first step, in this case it can help alot. Figure out something you WANT to do, and go from there.
Also, go hang out with friends together. My girlfriend and I are poor as shit right now. We live together, see each other every day, and yeah, it can get pretty boring. We bring friends home and hang out with them because its the cheapest way to entertain ourselves. Do the same.
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take sex to the next level. instead of traditional, try positions like you see in movies, get some whip cream in there, some chocolate syrup, ANYTHING lol. sex isn't sex without the FIRE, the DESIRE, THE NEED FOR MORE. k i'm done lol.
send him a text, or give him a message, a phone call, anything to let him know that your thinking of him, and you wouldn't rather have ANYONE ELSE as your boyfriend. use your imagination.
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i would say to just see him a little less than usual and to not have sex alot cause that makes it boring or you could learn new moves .but when you guys do hang out go somewhere that you both enjoy somewhere new.good luck
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