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sexual attractions
first off if you read this i just wanna thank you =)
okay this is probably normal..but i always get sexual attractions for my boyfriend and when we make out and stuff i always get extremely wet...i think thats good? however, im so afraid to have sex even though i definetly know we're not gonna for awhile...so is it normal to have sexual attractions yet not wanting to have sex?
also, when alot of people make out the hands move...he kinda just puts his arms around me and they stay there basically the whole time...does that mean anything? i tried moving his hands and he goes with where i move them to but then they just stay there and i want him to know that its okay for him to move them..without tellnig him that, so how do i drop little hints?
btw, hes told me that hes never been this crazy about a girl before but we havent said "i love you" yet because we both feel its too early in the relationship to decide yet...
any advice on anything would be really appreciated!
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haha TOTALLY normal! and you kinda get that butterfly feeling ya know?
alot of times when you see hands moving its in films that are extreamly exaggerated, he may be too focused on kissing you to do so. Or are you talking about moving his hands to your private parts? if so he just may be nervous just talk to him while ur kissing him and say you don't have to be afraid to let your hands explore, or something that you're comfortable with saying.
good luck to you!!
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yes it is normal that you have sexual attractions even though you don't want to have sex yet it's fine and for the hands thing A) he's just not one to move his hands when you two make out or B) he's scared that you might not like it and you will think he's moving to fast try taking his hand and holing it next time or when you two start making out start huging him and do what you want him to do to you
hope i helped =D
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It's perfectly normal to be horny and not want to have sex.
When he puts his arms around you, that means he wants to hold you in his arms. He's in no rush for busy hands (that's a VERY good thing). But if you want him to move his hands, try moving your hands. encourage him. Tell him it's all right to move his hands.
He might just want to take things slow. So give him a bit of time before those hands start going off on a mind of their own.
cheers,
stargirl
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