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guy #1, #2, and #3..what do i do!?
Here are the 3 situations I am terribly confused in, I am looking for honest opinions and advice on which is better to persue.
#1
Okay so there's this guy, he's pretty cute, and I sorta like him. We met randomly and it started really fast, something really unusual for me. We've had a couple make-out sessions, and hung out a couple of times and we seem to get along well but there's one problem. He just got out of a 3 year relatioship and isn't ready to rush into another anytime soon. I don't want to be the rebound girl, you know. The thing is, he keeps sending mixed signals. Like he says "i dont wanna rush into anything" and then the next thing you know he is kissing me, and we end up in my bedroom..with the lights and shirts off.. o.O and today he calls me to wish me a happy thanksgiving..and says we 'have' to do something when i get back, because i went home for thanksgiving..
#2
Okay, so there's this guy, he's really hot, and I really like him. We met through a friend and we've become friends rather quickly. We've hung out plenty of times at the gym or we go partying/clubbing or just chilling at my appartment. We get along real well but here's the problem. I was totally clueless to how he felt and I really wanted to know so I told him I liked him the other day and he didn't reject me so to speak but he didnt say he liked me back either, he sorta just said he wasn't ready to date a girl if her dad wouldn't approve because he's too protective. We never really finished out conversation about it but yeah.. I really like him and I want it to work but I don't know if he's just using my dad as an excuse to let me down easy because he really just doesn't like me that way, or because he really has a problem with it and does like me.. Either way I hope we're still gonna be great friends cause he sorta said so himself that I was a blast to hang out with and was pretty cute.. :) and I can't stop thinking about him. Seriously, I think about this guy all the time, even when with other guys..is that bad?
#3
Okay, so there's this guy, he's really cute, and I love him, really i do.. We met as youngsters(10yrs ish) and we became best friends. We've hung out for years and had awesome times together but here's the problem. First of all he lives in Italy now(but comming home after the summer) and I dont think he totally diggs me in 'that way' if you know what I mean. I know love is a strong word but thats how I feel about this guy..no joke. Between him moving to Italy for the year, and me moving away for University, I miss him so much! I am willing to wait for him so I'm hoping that it works out you know.. I mentioned to him in May that I like, liked him and he came back to me like 2 weeks later saying he just wated to be friends..I was totally cool with it seeing as how long we had already been friends and I didn't feel for him the whole time, but like we still went to my prom together and I think, or at least I hope he had a good time, but like I'm still so confused about it, like I know what the situation was before and I'm pretty sure it's the same now but I don' know for sure, I just wish I knew how he felt, now.
There you have it, the sad story of an 18 year old girl. Thanks in advance =]
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#3. because you can't f with love haha. if that doesn't work out meet new guys, your 18. you got some to many awesome party years ahead of you to be tying yourself down.
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