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Are they good friends or bad?
Well you see. i have a group of friends. there's 3 of us and at some stage one of us will feel left out which is pretty annoying BUT the worst bit is that we have so so so many fights.. atleat once a day if we're lucky we might have one 2 times a week but when we do its always gang up 2 against one im usualy left fighting for myself. but i dont know what to do. should i leave the group and find new friends or not? if i do they might start bitching about me or something stupid like that. but i probably should add that the main reason we fight is beacause of another girl that im friends with and they hate and well THEY CANT STAND ME HAVING DIFFERENT FRIENDS!
If that makes any sence.. please help me !!
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Same thing happens to me. I'm friends with this other girl in my school and we hang out now and then. BUT my other two bff's ignore me when I even talk to her. They're so jelouse but about a month ago i confronted them and told them that they could either suck it up and move on and be my friend or completley forget about me. So they said they wouldn't get mad at me any more.
So that fixed it. Confronting them i mean. however your other friends might be different so i'm not sure. But in my case telling them how i felt was so much better then letting their jelousy get the better of me
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Perfect sense.
I had 2 girls that I hung out with forever. And like you, I was always the one that got left out. For a long time it bothered me, but I got to the point where I just didn't care anymore. I had other friends that I hung out with outside of school (because they never wanted to do anything with me) and it seemed that they could find something wrong with every single one of them. I got to the point where I just didn't like hanging out with them anymore. It wasn't anything in particular that they did, I just decided one day it was time for me to make new friends and stop relying on them. So I did, and I have never been happier. I wish that we could still be friendly toward each other, but of course there are bitter feelings. I haven't talked to them in forever, and since it is our senior year, I'm hoping maybe that will change. But for now, I have new friends and it was the best decision I have ever made.
If you like these girls, then of course you should hang out with them. But if you get like me, you will probably one day realize you are ready to make new friends. You can explain this to them or not, it's your choice. Just realize they may not be to forgiving about your choice.
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