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weirded out help????


Question Posted Monday October 13 2008, 5:23 pm

so this is weirding me out now. theres this gut on my bus every sunday afternoon.

he's quite cute and seems to be my type. (shy, likes books, messy hair, wears hats :D)

and for the past couple of weeks ive had dreams about him while asleep and awake about him being my bf.

its really strange. like if i go to make a drink i'll imagine him next to me talking, joking, laughing and cuddling with me.

in the dreams at nite i feel like he could really know me, understand my and my problems and that i could talk to him about them and he could help me. i dont know what to do about it.

i dont know his name and have never spoken to him. this has never happened before so i dont have a clue.

im freaking out about it. should i act on it or not.

could i ever tell him about these dreams?

what if he turns out it be the complete opposite of what ive imagined?


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ccupcake07 answered Tuesday October 14 2008, 3:27 pm:
I would just try talking to him first. Have a normal conversation and get to know him. The dreams might go away after you get to know the "real" him. Hope this helps!

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Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Tuesday October 14 2008, 1:47 pm:
i had dreams like that about my fiance before we actully meet and everything turned out perfect. i fall asleep thinking about him and thats what causes the dreams and during the day i still day dream about him. and i remember our first kiss and every kiss after that was like me melting into his arms.

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pseudophun answered Tuesday October 14 2008, 1:38 pm:
I've had these dreams a lot in my life and they usually turn out right. What they don't tell you is everything that could happen in between. Right now I'm having dream where my long term bf and I get married. I'm hoping.

I say you act on it. Talk to him, get to know him and see where it goes. Worse comes to worse it's just a fantasy but in my experiences these sorts of daydreams are messages that this can be the real thing.

I don't recommend telling him about the dreams though. Keeping precognitions (your dreams) to yourself makes you sound less crazy... trust me.

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