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kiss
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Alright well i have never been kissed before. I just got a boyfriend on saturday named david and i really like him. We "talked" for a month and a half before he asked me out. So, we know eachother well. He knows i haven't ever kissed a guy before and he told my friend that he wanted it to be a good one. Now, i don't know when he wants to kiss because he walks me to my classes and we hug and thats when couples usually kiss but i'm just not sure. I don't know what to do after we hug and i just don't know what to do or how to act or when he is going to do it and i am just really confused and nervous. I'm not sure when he wants to do it or what i should do and i am definatly not talking to him about it. Please help!
My name is rachel.
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I was the same exact way up until recently. I totally know your feelings of weird, embarrassed and a bit of awkward when you're together with him.
But, honestly, the first kiss literally comes when you least expect it, and when it does happen, it'll happen competely naturally.
I remember I was so nervous for anything because I knew I'd have no idea what to do. But it was just a simple kiss and it nothing more.
You said that your boyfriend wants the kiss to be a "good one". Well that's okay, but you want to make sure your not forced into kissing (or making out) with him and you want to feel comfortable 100% of the time in doing so.
Just relax and everything will go smoothly. It will come naturally and then when it does you're going to feel so relieved.
Hope this helped ! :]
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Well Rachel, when my fiance and I first kissed we hugged and looked each other in the eyes and he leaned in. He knows it is your first kiss so he will make the first move and lean in so when he does just follow his lead tilt your head and go in for it.
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Well Rachel,
The thing about first kisses is that when they should be random, unexpected, and perfect. Stop worrying. If he's smart, he'll wait for a special moment, on a date or something, and wait for it to feel right... and if you're paying attention you'll feel it too and it'll just happen. It'll be beautiful and just like out of a movie.
So, don't worry, don't talk to him about it, just let it happen. You'll like it better that way.
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Well for starters you don't have to have any experience to know how to "lock lips" with someone. There is no right or wrong way, and by this, you can now feel a bit at ease.
Kissing between two people is a natural action that mostly occurs when the two feel that "certain vibe". Trust me, it wont be that bad if you think you did an awful job, for your first time. Just keep practicing, you'll get better at it.
Being that you boyfriend knows that you've never kissed anyone, and him being fully understanding, goes to show that its not a problem and he's willing to teach you.
So, play his student, and enjoy every moment your lips touches his, it'll be worth it...
Good Luck!
Let me know how your first kiss goes.
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