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I can finally go out
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 6:03 pm
Well, I'm 14, and recently, I discussed with my dad if I could have a boyfriend, and he said he guessed so. I'm glad I can finally go out and all, it's just that only one person has asked me out this year, and I had to turn them down... so... yeah... it's not like I'm ugly or annoying, I'm not actually sure why a lot of people don't ask me out. Maybe I'm not flirty enough? I dunno. Can I have some tips on how to flirt with boys? I'm pretty quiet, but I'm outgoing if I get to know someone a little... does that make sense? Ok, well let's just leave it at I'm pretty quiet. And I'm more for boys asking me out, not the other way around... so... yeah...again. Anyone?
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Arguements/Irritable
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 5:55 pm
18/f and boyfriend 20/m
Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year and a half. Yes, this is quite a bit of time. Yet it seems recently we have been getting into arguements frequently, and it's usually over something silly. and I know relationships consists of arguements every now and then but this frequent is strange to me. Although sometimes I admit I get a little irritable and snap back at him but I think one of the problems is seeing him so often. I have a feeling he's depend on me and doesn't hang out with his friends like I should. I shouldn't be pushed to see him everyday. I really don't know how to tell him (although i have already told him he needs to hang out with his friends too) but the thing is.. we d...
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i don't know WHAT do to!
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 5:24 pm
okay,HEREsss the backround of all thiss. well i'm a junior and the kid i like is a sophmore(highschool). we started talking one day in a study that we both had because our teachers weren't there. then, we found out that we both had the same gym class. our school splits up the boys and girls in gym, so i don't see him until the end for like 5 minutes! sometimes he comes to our gym class though.
Soooo,I get the impression that he's a big flirt with other girls, because he's always around different ones at a time. and he hugs a lot. The thing is i like him,i think* he likes me too.he always seems like he wants to impress me.
I'm just not sure if i should trust him or fall any deeper than i am. Oh and what does it mean whe...
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bestfriends and hooking up
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 5:07 pm
llets start off as me and my best friend arent getting akong to well. she has a crush on this guy that likes me and hes cute so he asked if i wanted to hook up i said sure but my best friend cant find out and i dont wanna date you or any thing i just feel like hooking up oh and im 14 and hes 15 so my best frined hasnt a clue should i tell her before or after me and her crush hook up . oh and shes hooked up with my crushes all the time. but i feel guilty about doing what he wants to do and he also dated one of my othr best friends who doesnt like my best friend who likes him.so what should i do this is all going to happen halloween night and do note i might be drunk.
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Is this a sign a guy likes a girl? Guys input needed :]
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 4:39 pm
Theres this kid. I had a feeling he liked me about 1.5 years ago. I hadn't seen him much since then, until the start of this schoolyear. Lately whenever I look at him he's staring at me with, not an open mouth exactly, but his jaw is definitely kinda dropped. And its not like in the gross way haha.
I turn around a lot to talk to my friend who sits diagonally behind me & he sits beside her (but not behind me) & whenever I do, he's staring.
He's kinda quiet so he's never really made conversation with me, but he butts into me and my friend's conversations sometimes.
Do you think he likes me?
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want to have more fun
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 3:21 pm
15/f
my boyfriends 16, and we've been dating like a year and three weeks and we started dating like the day after we met so everything is getting to the point where i'm really comfortable with him and everything. we don't really go on dates due to no money or rides because neither of us can drive and i'm fine with that so we just normally hang out at each others houses. he has only been to my house like 2 times and i go to his house like 2 or 3 times a week so i wanted to start inviting him to my house a little more often. it's just hard at my house because most days someones arguing and crap. anywayyyys my question is what are some fun things we can do that don't really cost much? or nice things i can do for him?
thanks a bunch!
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Getting back together
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 2:37 pm
Hi. Me and my girlfriend broke up about two weeks ago. And i miss her... So much. I honestly feel like she is the one for me. How do i get her back? I'm almost positive that she still has feelings for me... But i'm worried that if i do the wrong thing i may lose her forever... What should i do?
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Alrite this is a question to all boys..13..14 15 you know
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 2:05 pm
lol, well i know some guys are like not shy and all but some guys are, will a boy make it obvious he likes yuou? cuz i like this boy but he only looks at me when i dont lookat him my friends see it all the time, why is this? if anyone would knowww.!
thanks.
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dealing with ex's
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 11:24 am
ive been waaaayyyyyy too hurt by a boy. gave him too many chances that shoulda never been gaven. when i think about the position im in now i wish i woulda ended this a long time ago, but the love i had for him took over me, even though hes completely changed. anyways he let me down again, after telling me it wouldnt be like this anymore, i told him i was blocking him outta my life and i actually did block his number. it hurts really bad because i know this is it, and this is the end and im not ever taking him back again and it hurts thinking that we'll never see eachother again but i know its what i have to do! how do i deal with this? i have a lot of friends and i go out a lot but it still alwyas hurts realy bad. i honestly just want to go...
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lover lover
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 2:13 am
Sometimes I feel trapped, not like he’s holding me down or anything, I just feel as if I’m not pleasing to him 100%. I’d never admit this to anyone though. For some reason, I’d rather have people believe that we have a perfect relationship, because how could I, ----, Someone smart enough to know better - fall into these games of “love”. Hell, we don’t even have a relationship since we broke up in May, simply because he claims “he’s not ready to fully commit, because when we do get together he’d like to give me his all.” Yeah, so the “boyfriend / girlfriend” title doesn’t exist. He tells his friends he’s single, his parents, everyone knows he’s single… Except me… The girl he fucks, the girl he claims ...
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im not crazy. he needs to know this
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 1:27 am
how do you make a guy that you like and dont know think that youre normal and like you?
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am 18 years old and i've never had a boyfriend!
Posted Wednesday October 29 2008, 12:55 am
hi, am 18 years old and i've never had a boyfriend i know its sad but like i dont know whats wrong with me honestly, i dont think am ugly to be honest i love how i look am not being cocky but i never really been in a relationship. i just dont think i have the skills to talk to guy more than a friend. am in college now so there are alot of good looking guys but i just dont know how to approach them. so what should i do?
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mhmmmmmmmmm
Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 10:53 pm
What are guys "attracted" to? Like their hormones. And is there anything that I can to do stimulate his hormones? Or trigger butterflies? (Do guys even get butterflies?)
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oh boy.
Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 10:05 pm
okay so theres this boy i met a while back. he's older. he's 21, and i'm 16. when we first started talking, we talked a lot. like i used to talk to him for hours. and like almost every day. and then one day he came over and we just chilled and watched videos. and then the next week i went to his house and we were gonna watch a movie, &then he made a movee, and yeah. we did i and yeah. the next week i went over again and we did it again. since then we've been seeing each other atleast once a week, even if it can only be for a minute or two. like two fridays ago, i told him i was at a party, and he was texting me and he was like what are you doing. and i didnt text back because i didn't know i got a text, and then when i checked he had te...
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can perfume make a guy like you?
Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 8:29 pm
i just got Fancy by Jessica Simpson.
i think it smells amazing.
do you think if i put a bunch on and go talk to my crush tomorrow he'll notice me in a good way?
I heard that smells trigger something....like if someone smells something good they'll be attracted to it or feel good or whatever.
anything will be appreciated! :D
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best friend...
Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 8:19 pm
I have a really good guy friend that i've been fairly close to for the past few years (we're juniors in high school right now) and its always been really nice because neither of us liked each other and we just got along super well. Well... now I like him. which is NOT GOOD. He's really caught up on another girl he's liked for a couple years. I highly, highly doubt that its gonna change anytime soon.
what do I do??? I can't jeopardize our friendship, and i know if i told him it would get BEYOND awkward and screw things up. there is honestly no hope of an actual relationship between us. advice?
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confused
Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 6:33 pm
ok, so me and my boyfriend sorta recently started kissing, not lke make out or anything just like that just pecks but anyways..
every now and then when he gives me a hug he will like not grab but kinda touch/grab the top part of my butt. i dont really have a problem with it, like every girls boyfriend does that and they dont mind. but something in my head is making me think too much. do you think he only likes me for my butt or something or its just a boyfriend thing?
like today he did it and i go woah! just grab my butt and he goes i like your butt then kinda grabbed it again.
do you think he just likes me for that or its just something hes doing.
please write back. im trying not to think about it to hard but i...
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My girlfriend
Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 6:03 pm
I have this girlfriend that was 11 and had a 15 year old boyfriend that she kissed and i'm going out with her and it kinda grosses me out that she went out with a 15 year old so what should i do?
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was it my fault
Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 5:31 pm
Last year may i met a boy that i realy liked and even tho i knew he had a girlfriend i lyked him alot . All of us were hangin out (his girlfriend too) and drinking after a couple of drinks she got drunk and he took her home when he came bak one thing led to another and we ended up kisin...for months after that we were talkiing on the fone and he finally left her and we got together. The thing is a couple of weeks ago i heard that his ex was pregnant for him and that they got an abortion the thing is when i ask him about it he doesnt want to anser he jus asks me y i bringin that up...but in a way i feel dat its my fault and if i didnt go there they would hav had the baby....im fellin reallly guilty what should i do?
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I'm in love with a guy that cheated on me.
Posted Tuesday October 28 2008, 4:47 pm
Ok here's the thing I met this guy A.J online through a game that we both played. Anyways we started out as friends, well I thought we did, but A.J started liking me quite early on, while I had a crush on best friend. But liking my friend in that way started to diminish the more time I spent with A.J. Long story short after I had stopped crushing on best friend, A.J and I started this major thing. We got together and he told me that he loved me and i eventually told him that i loved him. Well it turns out that he had gotten back together with his ex while he was dating me. He told each of us that the other was his best friend nothing more. we found out and confronted him on it. He chose to continue dating her. I tried to get rid of him from...
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