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okay so theres this boy i met a while back. he's older. he's 21, and i'm 16. when we first started talking, we talked a lot. like i used to talk to him for hours. and like almost every day. and then one day he came over and we just chilled and watched videos. and then the next week i went to his house and we were gonna watch a movie, &then he made a movee, and yeah. we did i and yeah. the next week i went over again and we did it again. since then we've been seeing each other atleast once a week, even if it can only be for a minute or two. like two fridays ago, i told him i was at a party, and he was texting me and he was like what are you doing. and i didnt text back because i didn't know i got a text, and then when i checked he had texted me again after that saying "stop making out with other boys!" and we just talked and then i visited him for a minute and then i had to go home. uhm. then like i think on friday last week he was texting me, and he said i'm a player, like he said my friends told him, but i know they don't talk to him. so he was like okay they didn't say that but he said he thinks that i'm a player. and i told him i wasn't. but idk. and then on saturday, i was at a party, and then like i drank waay too much and i had motrin, so i got alcohol poisoning, and he was at this other party like half an hour away, and he drove all the way to where i was to pick me up. and then he took me back to his house and gave me like bread and water and stuff and was just taking care of me. and then the next morning, he got up at 830 to take me back to my friends house. and like we slept in his bed, but we didn't really do anything, we just sorta messed around. but like lately, i feel like all we've really had is a physical relationship, but then he's really sweet to me and he does all these little things for me sometimes, but i feel like sometimes he just wants the physical stuff, and idk what to do. i guess i don't really have like one exact question. soo uhh. any thoughts on the situation?
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he could be the player but then again i dont know him that much im going by what you just said.i would talk to him you always have to communicate about how you feel if you do want more then a physical relationship i would tell him see his view on all of this sometimes guys are afraid to show there feelings are explain there feeling. the best thing to do is speak to him good luck.
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to me, yes, the guy seems really caring because he went all the way over there to that party to get you. Plus I bet if anything happened to you he would feel so bad about it. You are 16, honestly, this guy has been 16 obviously. He knows how you think, he knows what you want, he's been there done that. I feel that he honestly just wants you for sex, because that it what it seems like you guys do all the time. that is very unhealthy for a relationship. He knows that he can take advantage of you and seduce you easily, and just lure you into that horny sexual mood. He's an expert, and i feel that he is taking advantage of you. I'm only 16 too, i've never been in ur situation with a 21 year old, but i've had a friend in the kind of situation you are in...and its not very cute at all. You just have to be really careful. sometimes i guess its not all that bad because not every 21 year old is like that, but most of them are, so watch out. I hope this helps! goodluck.
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