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am 18 years old and i've never had a boyfriend!
hi, am 18 years old and i've never had a boyfriend i know its sad but like i dont know whats wrong with me honestly, i dont think am ugly to be honest i love how i look am not being cocky but i never really been in a relationship. i just dont think i have the skills to talk to guy more than a friend. am in college now so there are alot of good looking guys but i just dont know how to approach them. so what should i do?
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Relax. So you're 18 and you've never had a boyfriend. It's not sad... It's not abnormal either. There are lots of people that didn't have relationships during their teens. My sister didn't have a boyfriend until she was almost twenty years old... She still grew up to be a normal adult, fell in love, and got married around the age of thirty. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 19, almost 20... I still grew up to be perfectly normal, met a fantastic guy, and am engaged to be married.
It's okay to be a late bloomer. Don't worry about what everyone else has done. Infact... Don't worry. Not about this anyway. You have plenty of time to date, plenty of time to find the right guy. Eighteen is the beginning of your life, don't rush.
As for how to talk to guys... Just relax and be yourself. If you can't flirt, that's okay. Just be nice. Talk to guys like you'd talk to anyone else. I know that some of this may sound cliche, but it works. A lot of guys actually do respond to a genuine personality and simple kindness.
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