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was it my fault
Last year may i met a boy that i realy liked and even tho i knew he had a girlfriend i lyked him alot . All of us were hangin out (his girlfriend too) and drinking after a couple of drinks she got drunk and he took her home when he came bak one thing led to another and we ended up kisin...for months after that we were talkiing on the fone and he finally left her and we got together. The thing is a couple of weeks ago i heard that his ex was pregnant for him and that they got an abortion the thing is when i ask him about it he doesnt want to anser he jus asks me y i bringin that up...but in a way i feel dat its my fault and if i didnt go there they would hav had the baby....im fellin reallly guilty what should i do?
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well. i feel that you honestly should not have gone near him if you new that he already had a girlfriend...that puts a bad reputation on you. its not your fault that the girl got pregnant, that is her issue and the guy's issue because they did it. you weren't there wen it happend...you didn't lure them into it...you had nothing to do with them having sex, but them braking up, i don't want to hurt your feelings, but honest truth, yes. they broke up because the guy fell for you. and even if they did stay together, i don't think that they would have had the baby. the guy doesn't sound too much like he is ready for a baby anyway.
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Well, fact of the matter is, you don't know that you coming into his life changed anything.
What I will say is this... He best be giving you better answers regarding her abortion.
Fact of the matter on that is, what if he gets YOU pregnant?
You'd be better off knowing how he reacted in that situation so you can either be:
A) Prepared for him to bail on you.
B) Tell him to buzz off.
Just remember this important fact: Don't forget how he treated her, because now you are walking in her shoes.
ygs-30/f
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