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uggg. dudes.
Posted Saturday November 8 2008, 1:21 am
okay. so why does it seem like all guys are douche bags???
and how do you really know if a guy is flirting with you? i mean i know somethings for like if you talk to the guy a lot. but like for a guy that you talk to some, how do you know that he's flirting with you?
help? =[.
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Boyfriend of 3 Years!
Posted Friday November 7 2008, 11:56 pm
Hi me and my bf have been dating for 3 years I LOVE HIM SOOO MUCH! Lately he has been going to his friends house like 4-5 times a week and drinking. Now I don't car if he goes out and has a good time I am just afraid that he is training his body into a filthy bad habbit. It's not like he gets HAMMMERED I just don't like his new routine. He will come to my house at like 1-3 am when the fun is over just to sleep with me. I love that he cares and is coming over I just prefer to spend quality time with him than him coming in the middle of the night. I have tried to tell him I don't like what he is doing and I think he is getting a little offensive. He is also an occosional smoker and obviously when he drinks I can only imagine he smokes much mo...
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good christmas presents for my boyfriend.
Posted Friday November 7 2008, 8:06 pm
ok. so my boyfriend LOVES the pittsburgh, steelers football team. So for christmas i was thinking bout getting him the whole steelers comforter set and a glass case for his signed football. Is that a good idea?
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I don't know what to do, I am torn
Posted Friday November 7 2008, 7:30 pm
Ok, so I hope this doesnt sound too minor, because right now it is major to me.
One of my best friends went away to boarding school, so I don't see her very often at all. When she did live here last year full time, we still didnt see each other often because we went to different high schools and I live an hour and a half away. Anyway, my friends that are closer, well I hang out with them alot. And one time, she had a sleepover, and I wasnt allowed to go, because my dad said I had no way of getting back home, but I ended up staying over my other friend's who were closer's house, and my best friend was understandably offended. One of the people who I usually hang out, well, we like each other, and we're finally going on a date...
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Worried about others.
Posted Friday November 7 2008, 5:46 pm
There are a lot of people on this site I see asking questions that are pretty important, and a lot of answers that sadly don't always seem very helpful, so, me, Advocate, would like to invite anyone who wants help on any subject to shoot me an email at adviceforanyone@gmail.com - I'm a young woman with plenty of time on my hands, and I feel like I've got a lot of good solid advice to offer to a lot of people, especially other young people.
I look forwards to (hopefully) being able to help you out.
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more than kissing.
Posted Thursday November 6 2008, 10:04 pm
what some other stuff i can do other than make out with my bf. no hand job or blow job. like something romantic or something.
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im confused, i NEED help!
Posted Thursday November 6 2008, 8:35 pm
k, i asked out this beautiful guy at my school and he first said "i dont know" 2 weeks later, i asked him again, and he said "i dont know, maybe" finally, another 2-3 weeks later, i asked him and he said "no" i told him i was sorry for bugging him and all, and then he told all of his friends about it, and now they call me a stalker. on the other hand, there is this other guy that i hate, and he tells everybody that i like him, and i dont. while he is calling me disgusting, one of his friends is telling everyone that i asked out the guy in the beginning, and they all tease me about it.
about the beautiful guy, he is confusing me! he said that he hated me, but if he hated me, then why would he say "ma...
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Two Guys??
Posted Thursday November 6 2008, 5:49 pm
So there is this guy Tony I liked him alot we have a big gap in age and he was alittle iffy on it but still liked me. So i told him i just wanted to be friends. I meet this guy Nathan and we have been dating for a while. Tony and I can't talk because Tony came to my work once and i gave him a hug good bye he told me hed come to my work and kiss me infront of everyone. I love my boyfriend a lot sometimes he says things to make me feel like crap but i love him and i know he loves me. I have been thinking about Tony a lot. I feel confused and not sure what to do. whats your opinion on this?
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Boyfriend Problems :(
Posted Thursday November 6 2008, 5:03 pm
Okay, well I kinda snuck out the house at 3am a few weeks ago to go to my boyfriends house and he didn't even know I was going over there he just called me and said "im outside" so I decided to walk out there to see him. Well anyways my parents found out what I did and they think it was all my boyfriends fault that I snuck out even though it was my idea. Well they grounded me from everything and called my boyfriend who I was like in love with and told him never to speak to me again and that I couldn't talk to him anymore. Well that didn't stop me. I been using my friends phone and been texting him and when my parents go to bed I get the house phone and call him at night, but we are broken up. I want to go back out with him, but il...
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Hmm..should i?
Posted Thursday November 6 2008, 4:58 pm
Ok theres this guy i like ALOT named Griffin
hes alot shorter than me which is kinda adorable but hes my ex's bestfriend my ex says he dont care but i know he does
should i go out with griffin? cuz he said he likes me too and he asked me out but i havent given him an answer yet =/
so yeahh help!
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Im in a sad sad situation...
Posted Thursday November 6 2008, 12:13 pm
well,..i spent some time with my ex-boyfriend on saturday..*sighs* well he just up & left me last year without warning& moved in with his wife& kid in las vegas(they were separated for the 5 years we were together)..well, it was very hard for me..well I didn't know how to act around him i was very nervous and didn't know how to act like myself..he stepped outside twisce while i was with him this weekend to call his wife and that just made me feel really bad, bad for her and bad for me.You must know that i was with him for 5 years, he was still technically married but they lived in separate states and he never wore his wedding ring. Now with all that has happend i still have this glimmer of hope. I still love him soo much and now...
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I dont know what she thinks!!
Posted Thursday November 6 2008, 10:55 am
Ok so im 20/f. I still have feelings for my ex. We broke up like 2 yrs ago and I have a new gf who Ive been with for a while and she has a new gf. We are all friends and everything but for some reason I still have this crush on my ex.
The other day I confessed it to her. I told her about my crush and my feelings for her and everything and we really havent talked since then bc I told her on aim and right after i told her i had to go bc I was at work. I tried msgin her yesterday but she was at work and kinda givin like one word answers so I didnt wanna bother her. I kinda wanna msg her today but like I never used to msg her before i told her so I dont wanna liek weird her out or anything. But I kinda wanna know what she thinks. im not...
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issues with being faithful
Posted Thursday November 6 2008, 9:53 am
okay...so I am seventeen years old, and i have a little problem...
I think that i have an issue with the men in my life. See, i've never really had a father figure because my dad doesnt care really what i do. he has lived in the same house as me for my whole life, but he shows no interest in my life whatsoever. he doesnt even know my birthday, how old i am, or what grade i am in. I've always wanted to be like my friends and be a daddy's little girl, but no matter how hard i try, he still doesnt care. i've told him i love him so many times but he'll just hang up the phone or walk away.
i dont think i've done anything to disappoint him, i've always been a good kid, never in trouble...so why doesn't he love me?...
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how to feel sexier
Posted Thursday November 6 2008, 8:44 am
I've been in a relationship for 6 months. I used to do a bit of mauy thai boxing and rugby. I'm not a pure butch girl or anything like that infact i'm the complete opposite. But when me and my boyfriend go to watch my friends in dancing shows and things he loves to watch them as they look really sexy. And i wish i had something like femanine that i done. even if i could sing or dance. I can dance and sing a little bit but i think it's too late too start dancing again as i'm 17. I just wish he'd look at me like the way he does when they're on stage. I was even thinking of changing my dress style a bit so its a bit sexier but i dn't no how to go about it. I don't want people to get the impression that i'm a tomboy or that because i'm really n...
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"love"
Posted Wednesday November 5 2008, 11:48 pm
we say it, we mean it in different ways. their are many different reasons to why we love something or someone. can i get your guys input on what i love you to a significant other means (boyfriend and girlfirend) (husabnd or wife) NOT friend to friend or anything.
also what bascially love means to you.
please think hard and answer both questions thank you.
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friends...mostly
Posted Wednesday November 5 2008, 11:25 pm
ok. i have a crush...it's kind of stupid and very high school (which, btw, i am, he's not) and i know he has big things to focus on right now...that aren't me. i feel like i've been clinging though and we've been like friends for a couple years. i don't want to mess that up. just to talk to him (cuz i hardly get to see him anymore) i'll message him on myspace and then realize how pathetic i'm sounding about pretty pointless subjects. how can i keep talking to him without sounding like...you know...i just want to talk to him? how can i keep being a good friend to him without him getting that i might be thinking something more? :( he is a really good friend to me. i don't want to jeopardize it.
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what do i do?
Posted Wednesday November 5 2008, 8:39 pm
i told a guy that i like him and hee says he likes another girl but im still sexy i really want him do i wait or move on?
thanks
loveboys
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Why do i feel like i lost a war of love?
Posted Wednesday November 5 2008, 8:02 pm
Ok i told you all about how this guy liked me told me that he loved me said he didn't want my friend and lied to me we he really did. But i don't want to go back in all that detail. But i am not talking to him he text me yesterday and i told him i was mad and wasn't talking to him and told him about SOME not ALL but some of what I knew he lied to me about. I asked him why he lead me on and he said I lead him on which I didn't(i don't think I did). Now I have questions is the girl my friend for real because she knew I liked him and asked if she should go with(not if i approved but just asked period) him. And I saw him flirting with her RIGHT in front of me. What should i do???? Should i still talk to him and PERTEND not to care that he is fl...
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My Crush
Posted Wednesday November 5 2008, 8:01 pm
OK, my crush(that I just started liking this year) is going out with one my bffls. I really dont mind it.. but I have had some people come up to me saying that the only reason that he is going out with her is to get to me...basically can you give me some "falling out of love" tips aka. some tips to make me stop likin him!
thanks
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How do I win this girl over?
Posted Wednesday November 5 2008, 6:03 pm
I have been talking to this girl for about two weeks. She is really cool and I have grown to really like her. But unfortunately she has a boyfriend. The boyfriend lives in north Carolina. We live in PA. She is convinced that they will be together forever. But he is a control freak, and she knows it. She constantly rants to me about it, so there are already problems in the relationship. My question is how do I win this girl over?
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