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Boyfriend of 3 Years!
Hi me and my bf have been dating for 3 years I LOVE HIM SOOO MUCH! Lately he has been going to his friends house like 4-5 times a week and drinking. Now I don't car if he goes out and has a good time I am just afraid that he is training his body into a filthy bad habbit. It's not like he gets HAMMMERED I just don't like his new routine. He will come to my house at like 1-3 am when the fun is over just to sleep with me. I love that he cares and is coming over I just prefer to spend quality time with him than him coming in the middle of the night. I have tried to tell him I don't like what he is doing and I think he is getting a little offensive. He is also an occosional smoker and obviously when he drinks I can only imagine he smokes much more than usual. I love him and I want a future with him. I am just afriad of what that future might be if he continues just "having fun" and not thinking about sereous things. He has a car and is planning on buying a house and is very responsible I'm just afraid that he might get into his fathers bad habbit of drinking. How can i get him to realise that his new habbits are starting to drive me crazy and depressed? All i think about is our future and how I don't want anything to change but he thinks that he just won't become an alcoholic or he thinks he can just quit smoking at any time. I love that he is so sure about himself but I am thinking more realisticly and I just want him to prove it to me!
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You have reason to worry if his father is
an alcoholic. Sit him down to discuss how
you don't like where this partying is going.
4-5 times a week is excessive drinking. If
he doesn't have a problem now he will have.
You don't even want a relationship that
goes in that direction.
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i think you need to sit down and have a talk with him. let him know your feelings and that you dont mind him drinking with his buddys you just think hes doing it alittle to often. tell him trust his judgement but you dont want him to be getting into a habbit of it.
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