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friends...mostly
ok. i have a crush...it's kind of stupid and very high school (which, btw, i am, he's not) and i know he has big things to focus on right now...that aren't me. i feel like i've been clinging though and we've been like friends for a couple years. i don't want to mess that up. just to talk to him (cuz i hardly get to see him anymore) i'll message him on myspace and then realize how pathetic i'm sounding about pretty pointless subjects. how can i keep talking to him without sounding like...you know...i just want to talk to him? how can i keep being a good friend to him without him getting that i might be thinking something more? :( he is a really good friend to me. i don't want to jeopardize it.
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if u feel this strongly for this guy than he needs to be informed... if he rejects you than it is a possibility that you could jeapordize your relations but it is a risk that should be taken
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well the one thing that a girl "never" wants to do is put herself in the position where she knows that she's crushing on a guy (hard in your case), but doen't want to pursue him because of the risk of jepordizing the friendship if the outcome of his feelings for her isn't all that she wants it to be. In order to avoid him thinking that your desperate and weird (which your totally not) with all the "silly convo's just trying to make conversation" which will give him further reason to put you in the position of waking up to no missed calls, i highly reccomend a distant relationship, maybe something like chat sessions occasionally when you see him since you obviously want to talk to him so your heart wont be put on the line because you do have a crush on him which can turn into falling in love in a split second, or just being yourself and telling him how you feel. who knows? he might actually like the personality that your hiding from him. but there is also a chance of rejection. but as i always say, you don't want to look back years from now still wondering..."what if". that could really mess a girl up inside and add on to your regrets in life when you could have had what you wanted this whole time. it's as simple as this, "Follow your heart sweetie". you don't want to look back years from now wondering..."what if". :)
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set your feelings aside and talk to him as a friend to whom someone you look up to. ask how hes doing whats he doing dont act flirty well maybe a little but not alot.
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