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Ok, my name is Jessica, and I want a new nickname, but it's not very easy for that name! I don't want Jess or Jessie, I want something really original. My middle name is Murphy, but I don't know if that would be a cool name to be called or if it sounds too tom boy-ish. I just don't like my name being so common. Thanks so much you guys!!!
what about Jayme =) look at the first and last letter in both of your names
"J"essic"A" "M"urph"Y" (and Jay can be short for Jessica)thats why i said Jayme :)
ok so i have pretty bad skin. quite a few spots and some old scars from spots. im pretty sure its not acne though. i hate covering it with make up cos i want to be able to feel comfortable going to school not wearing any.
is there any good creams, facewash or cures that actually work. cos ive tried sooo many.
also it has to be sold in the UK and be fairly cheap. i am a student.
thankyou in advance. :)
just go to a dermatologist! your face will be cleared up in no time! trying different acne products can either take forever compared to going to a dermatologist, or just make things way worst if your skin doesnt agree to it :)
Its a new techno song. I've heard it on r&b radio stations. Its very trippy and mostly just techno noise and beats. very little singing. I know its not alot of information but any help helps!
well this is clearly not enough information for anyone to be able to tell you what the name of the song is LOL =P but my advice to you would be to do what i do! the next time it comes on write down the little bit of lyrics that you hear and type them into yahoo! the name of the song should come up!
So i have this boyfriend that i adore
Here's what you do...
Guys are so weird. i bet your in highschool. it's usually then when they try to act all big just to fit in and will do almost anything to gain points and seem cool with the guys. ill =/. but you stand your ground girl. man up since he seems to be mr macho man around everyone and tell him how you feel. tell him that if he doen't stop this he's gonna loose you. and if he "Really" cares about you he will stop. but if he doesn't...you so deserve better. it will be your time to make him feel like crap. Dump him and find someone who looks ten times better. He'll really feel it then ;) payback settled!
I am 13/boy. i dated ths girl for two years an idk i actually loved her i think. we would hang out all the time,and just hav a blast. after her tho i just started dating random girls. i meen i know them but i use to date girls for there personality,now i date them for there asses.idk what to do( the girl i love is datig my best friend )
okay first and foremost your not a man whore. lol. it just sounds to me like your reacting from being hurt. it seems to me like your only dating these girls just to get back at her, maybe in the hope that she'll notice and get jealous and want you back. But my advice to you is that any girl who will do this to you, can have whoever she wants except gor you. your too good for her. you don't want someone who will break your heart. I understand that you love her, but why settle for "good", when you can have "the best" :) make her jealous by being with someone who your really in love with and are 100% sure that they wont break your heart like she would. make her see that she passed up a good thing and want it back but it's already gone. she lost her chance with you. payback settled!
Just wondering, but can you breast feed with implants?
i highly doubt that. but my advice to you would be not to get any advice from people on a website who arn't doctors and take the chance because you don't want to harm your baby in anyway. "Ask Your Doctor". You don't want to take "Any" risks...especially when it comes to putting the life of your baby in any danger.
we say it, we mean it in different ways. their are many different reasons to why we love something or someone. can i get your guys input on what i love you to a significant other means (boyfriend and girlfirend) (husabnd or wife) NOT friend to friend or anything.
also what bascially love means to you.
please think hard and answer both questions thank you.
This should help you out!
Have you ever heard the term "I love you, but I'm not "in love with you" ?
well...
what "i love you" means to your significant other that it does not mean to a friend is simply...
"i don't just love you, I'm "in love with you". HUGE DIFFERENCE. It means you'll ignore everyone else anytime "because you only want them". It means that you'll give everything and everyone else up if it only means that you could be left standing with them. It means "truely" being selfless. but most of all, it means that words are only words, so you have no choice but to show them something else." ;)
hi, well right now im am 18 year old female, but this has always been a problem for me. during the school year, i like never do anything during the week. i come home from school, sometimes will take a nap and then do homework. i wish i could hang out with my friends but i'm such a freak about getting my homework done and i feel like i can't enjoy myself while going out during the week because of school the next day. i feel like i'm the only one who does this but i can't seem to break the habit. i go out on the weekends, but the weekends arent long enough! is there anything i could do? i'm a good student, i always get my homework done but i just can't seem to go out and hang with my friends.
your just like me lol :) your simply horribly paranoid about getting all of your school work done on time because you hate the consequences that not doing your homework does. it causes homework to pile up and you really don't want to be stuck with a lot of homework to do because the truth is that you really hate doing homework already as it is. you lean more on the social side. my best advice for you is to stop stalling with the naps because it already sucks the fact that you know that when you wake up you have work to do. thats the worst =/. my advice to you is to do what i did, do the next few chapters in your schoolbooks ahead of time so you can hang out with your friends...the same friends that has to go home and do those chapters at one point or another when you now all of a sudden have so much free time on your hands :) i hope that helped :) enjoy your new social life!
I'm catholic, I even attended a catholic school [K-2grade] I'm 13 now and I don't really believe in God. Actually I'm not that sure anymore. I would like to believe in him but I just don't. So I was wondering if there is like any proof in God. Like how do people know he did exist. Because right now I'm on the lines of believing in evolution because its the only one they have actual proof on and it makes sense. Also, I'd like to add how none of the stories are actually possibe. Like the story about that guy getting swallowed by the whale its impossibe, which leads me to believe God doesn't exist and he's jus a bunch of stories and myths.
I'm not catholic, I'm a Christian. but i can tell you being 100% sure that God does really exist from my own experiences. I'm not gonna just tell you about my experiences like some people would in the hopes that it will convince you that he exists because you will still be left in the same position that your in now, " stuck without proof". So here's what you do because your already on the right path wanting to believe in him and that's all God needs to know is that there is someone who seeks him and he will find you as soon as he hears your call. Those who truely seek after God will be found. So Here's what you do..you pray to God in the name of Jesus and tell him that your seeking after him, and you ask him to show you some type of sign that he is real. it can be sign as simple as a dove on your window when you wake up in the morning, or just ask for a sign from him and believe me he will hear you and it will happen for you. you have to look out for it :). you will be so amazed :) i'm happy that your seeking God because he changed my life forever for the better :). God is real =)
19 year old female. my best friend is 18. we've been friends for years now, i trust him with everything i have but i'm one of the most sarcastic people you will ever meet, he knows that. well tonight he was texting me and somehow got confused on what i was trying to say and i was like you are so slow and he was like no i'm not i'm just confused, what were you trying to say? well then i got confused and i was like, now i dont remember, because you confused ME now. i was just like, your always confused, everytime i say something i have to explain it to you! and he was like because you say weird stuff. then i was like well then maybe you shouldn't talk to me anymore if i say weird stuff, keep in mind i was being SARCASTIC, and i didn't know what to say back to him. and well after he didn't text me back. now i don't know what to think, i don't think he would of taken it seriously he knows i'm always like that but it did kind of hurt when he was like "you say weird stuff". what do you think is running through his mind?
it's as simple as this. although your friend was confused at first, he tried to be nice about it by simply asking you what you said and you simply repaid him with an insult by calling him "slow". Of course you got upset with him telling you that "you say weird stuff". but now you know how he feels to constantly take the things that you say to him in on a regular basis. It's clear that your sarcasm throughout the years has finally took a toll on him and made him feel like he has to strike back. sarcasm can really pick away at peoples conciousness inside, (especially after a long period of time), and make them feel like they have had enough. it is when a person has had enough that their pushed to react on their impulses, which is most likely what happened to your friend tonight. What is most likely running through this kids mind is "A friend wants a friend. not someone who treats them like they treat everyone else. Sarcasm is off limits to friends, but love isn't". and you should really think about that :). i suggest a heartfelt sorry and a change in attitude. because at the end of the day words are only words, and people need to be shown something else.
ok. i have a crush...it's kind of stupid and very high school (which, btw, i am, he's not) and i know he has big things to focus on right now...that aren't me. i feel like i've been clinging though and we've been like friends for a couple years. i don't want to mess that up. just to talk to him (cuz i hardly get to see him anymore) i'll message him on myspace and then realize how pathetic i'm sounding about pretty pointless subjects. how can i keep talking to him without sounding like...you know...i just want to talk to him? how can i keep being a good friend to him without him getting that i might be thinking something more? :( he is a really good friend to me. i don't want to jeopardize it.
well the one thing that a girl "never" wants to do is put herself in the position where she knows that she's crushing on a guy (hard in your case), but doen't want to pursue him because of the risk of jepordizing the friendship if the outcome of his feelings for her isn't all that she wants it to be. In order to avoid him thinking that your desperate and weird (which your totally not) with all the "silly convo's just trying to make conversation" which will give him further reason to put you in the position of waking up to no missed calls, i highly reccomend a distant relationship, maybe something like chat sessions occasionally when you see him since you obviously want to talk to him so your heart wont be put on the line because you do have a crush on him which can turn into falling in love in a split second, or just being yourself and telling him how you feel. who knows? he might actually like the personality that your hiding from him. but there is also a chance of rejection. but as i always say, you don't want to look back years from now still wondering..."what if". that could really mess a girl up inside and add on to your regrets in life when you could have had what you wanted this whole time. it's as simple as this, "Follow your heart sweetie". you don't want to look back years from now wondering..."what if". :)