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babe/cutie


Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 11:00 pm

f/16
so i don't know why but i always feel insecure?
people will flirt around with me and be like 'hey babe' or 'hey cutie' and i can't stand it! i never know waht to say to it. it makes me feel like people are just throwing it arond like its nothing-even though it really isn't. i've been hurt before by jerks that have messed around me with and i'm always trying to stay away from relationships.. i always chicken out of going on dates and everything. i don't know what to do or how to get it so i'm not such a chicken and insecure anymore...

any ideas?

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flirting, guys i could use your help


Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 10:56 pm

f/16

alright guys, i could use your help.
i cannot flirt at alll.
i don't know how to start it or what to say?
how can i flirt with a guy?
i'm told by a lot of people i have a good personality
and i'll admit that i'm not even really bad looking.
i just have problems talking to guys sometimes and flirting.

any ideas of what i can do or say to flirt?
thanks a bunch :)

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having second thoughts about my guy....


Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 9:55 pm

i've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months and i recently gave him a handjob...ever since i did that it seems i'm getting different feelings for him...idk why..is this normal? does it mean anything? what should i do about it? please help im so confused...i like(d) ? him soo much...

16/f

oh and we've never had sex or went any farther.

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please read it all, im desperate:(


Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 8:43 pm

this may be long but im desperate!
14/f
ok on october 25th me and my friend went to this hangout place and played games and stuff. now my friend is the type to go up to a guy and say hes hot then walk away. okay so shes had boyfriends but shes not a slut now im fat (but im working on it) and ive never had a boyrfriend. there were these to guys that we walked by and she went up to them and she was like do yall go to our school and i told her no they go to ***** (15 minutes from where i live) how do you
know and i said because i went to fifth grade with one of them (not the hot one) then we left. and i kept telling her how cute the other one was and so they both go to the school i was gonna go to if i hadnt moved and all ...

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Moving on


Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 7:13 pm

I recently started dating a new guy, in a few days it will have been a month. At first I wasn't sure if I should keep dating him because being with him made me miss being with my ex, not because I don't like him, but because I was constantly reminded of what it was like being with my ex. But I decided to stick with him because I didn't think I had given us a fair chance yet, and I assumed it was normal that I was missing my ex and that the feeling would go away soon. Well, it's been this way for a month now and I think I'm missing my ex even more now than I was before. I still talk to my ex, and we're good friends. I just don't know what to do... it's almost more painful being with someone else than being alone :(

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A boy problem


Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 7:04 pm

Theres a boy that i like and i want to ask him to be my boyfriend but i dont want to embaress my self what shoud i do

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I need Guys To Answer This..please!:]


Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 6:51 pm

Okay So,

you know how sometimes the whole question will come up of
"are you a virgin?"

well when we say "Yea, i am."

Do you guys honestly think its good,
or do you just say that?
:)

& do you believe us?lol

(im 16 By the way.)

Be Honest!!!
Thank you
<3

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HE'S A JUNIOR IM A DIPPERBABY...WHATEVER THE FUCK THAT MEANS...LOL


Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 6:43 pm

Theres this guy named Trevor and i only get to see him on the bus and he's been talking to me alot latley but not like excessivly like friends. but when he gets in the bus he smiles and looks at me as he passes my seat (he sits in the back i sit in seat like 16 or 17 idk)
and he makes weird noises so ill look back at him and stop when i do then resumes... and hes always looking at me...ANDDDD well he works at this little store called bloom one day i go with my mom and to my surprise as i walk in HE"S at one of the counters!!!!
i dont look at him just go on my way and then we get to the check out line he turns around and quickly says hi1 i had no idea what to do so i made a weird face and he says you ride my bus rite??? an...

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christmas presents


Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 6:15 pm

i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost a month and i dont no what to get him for christmas he likes sports but he told me not to get anything for him. what should i do?

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opinion on my writing


Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 3:11 pm

i started writing this, and thought maybe i could eventually publish it as a teen book. I am looking for opinions, thoughts, help, and constructive criticism on my writing. i really like constructive criticism because i need to know if my writing is good so far or not. also, what do you think about where the storyline is going and if i started it well or not. Here it is:

Kayla crept up next to the silent, dark house and poked her head around the back to see her parents and a few of their neighbors sitting around the decorative table drinking fine wines and food that reminded her of summertime. After all, it was the first day of summer. But this was not the place Kayla wanted to be spending it, at an unknown adult neighbors b...

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need help again


Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 9:55 am

ok so they think ryan likes me.. i dont think he does. like i ask his sister if he likes me and she says he does then or not and like i dont lnw if he does.. any tips to get him to like me or notice me thanks in advance i will rate

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How can i talk to a guy


Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 4:11 am

im 15/f. i shy and have a hard time talking to guys....just so u kno im not one of those weird people u kno who tlk to there cat but,i havent ever had a boyfriend...i dont think im bad looking im 5'0 and a little chubby but i can still wear a bikini and look in it..well i have semilong brown razor cut style hair and blue eyes...i wear hollister and stuff like that...but now i sound like im writing a single person seeking a person ad...but, i still cant figure out why im single

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This guy


Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 1:57 am

14/f

There is this guy I've liked for a couple weeks...I found out he likes me. I never told anyone about it till yesterday. My friend kept asking me if I liked him because he liked me. He wanted to ask me out but he wanted to see if I even liked him. So he was supposedly gonna ask me out today but we barely even talked. I can tell he does like me. Just the way he is. And he did talk to me for a little but after that we didn't say much and he walked away. He said bye to me too. I really don't know what to do. I'm not gonna see him till Weds. Please help, I really need it! Thanks soooo much!

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pigs, dogs, men


Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 12:26 am

k so i wanna know if its possible to make a guy that doesn't want to be in a relationship change his mind. like are there things a girl can do to make the guy want to commit to her. i was with this guy and he really didn't want to be committed. he always hooked up with several girls at once. but he met me and stopped talking to everyone else and looked like he was about to commit but then changed his mind and backed out. so now were friends but i wanna know how to make him want me as a girlfriend...

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how to become a pornstar?


Posted Monday December 8 2008, 10:16 pm

my email is tiff_luvs_deonte_4eva@yahoo.com i would love to become a pornstar but not sure how to get started

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Does he miss me? [Preferably males]


Posted Monday December 8 2008, 9:50 pm

17/F/AZ

Okay, well here's my story. Freshmen year I met this guy and we became friends. It wasn't a close relationship, but we were still friends. And I guess you can say that I developed a crush on him. By second semester we stopped talking completely. (He started making bad decisions.) Well, I'm in my senior year now. And I always see him walking down the halls and we some how always make eye contact. An example, my third period is next to his. I get out of class and he'd be walking towards me. I'd look away, but from the corner of my eye I can see that he looks at me. Does he miss me? If so, how can I show him that I miss him to without actually talking? (I don't want to be the first one to talk because of something that h...

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this one guy


Posted Monday December 8 2008, 8:51 pm

ok so i met this guy a couple weeks ago and we hung out for the first time this weeekend. we talked alot before we hungout and we like eachother.

so he picked me up and we went to the park so he can have a cig and we just chilled in his car. and im really shy, but hes the only person who doesnt make things awkward. and we just like talked and stuff and then we like cuddled and we hooked up.. if you know what i mean. haha.

but i feel like he used me. he was really cute and stuff and he like told me i gave his stomach butterflys and hes like i cant stop smiling im so happy. and im like aw and stuff. and he said cute stuff. but i feel like theres something missing. he told me he would call me the next day. but he...

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HELP!!!


Posted Monday December 8 2008, 7:56 pm

alright,

so me and my ex boyfriend broke up about 5 months ago. he was the first real boyfriend i had ever had, and i was the first real girlfriend he had ever had. We went out for about 6 months, and then we broke up. after a little while, i told him that i wanted him back, and he said he wanted to wait untill next year. It has been about 3 months since we talked about that, and i want to know if i should start talking to him again. Right now, me and him dont talk at all. What are some ways you think i could get him back?


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sex.


Posted Monday December 8 2008, 7:42 pm

my boyfriend is a senior and im a sophmore. hes lets say alottt more experienced then me. and its not that i dont feel comfortable with him. but its just kinda weird that i dont have as much experience. we havent gone farther than handjob and fingering so far. but i would wanna lose my virginity to him but i feel that it would be alittle uncomfortable for me knowing hes done it times before and i havent done it once...so if this happened to anyoneee pleasee help :].
&& boys howw would you feel with a younger virgin being less experiencedd and if it wasnt "good"?

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soo i think he may have moved on but i just cant tell!


Posted Monday December 8 2008, 7:26 pm

okay, this guy was flirting with me A LOTTT for the whole month of november, and before then, he would flirt with me a little bit, too. soo we've been back in school for a week since thanksgiving break and on the first day i came back, he flirted with me quite a bit. i missed 2 1/2 days out of that first week back, so neither of us really got the chance to flirt with each other. andd today was my first full day where i actually had the chance to flirt with him, but the odd thing is, he didnt flirt with me, hardly AT ALL. and im really worried that he moved on or doesnt like me anymore. but also i've been in a bad mood since last week and i havent been dressing cute or anything. we've both liked each other since 9th grade, somone please tell...

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