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HELP!!!
alright,
so me and my ex boyfriend broke up about 5 months ago. he was the first real boyfriend i had ever had, and i was the first real girlfriend he had ever had. We went out for about 6 months, and then we broke up. after a little while, i told him that i wanted him back, and he said he wanted to wait untill next year. It has been about 3 months since we talked about that, and i want to know if i should start talking to him again. Right now, me and him dont talk at all. What are some ways you think i could get him back?
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If a guy ever tells you that he wants to wait until next year, he is probably wanting to see what else is out there. If he wants you, he wouldn't allow any chance of another guy getting next to you. I honestly think he has moved on, or doesn't want to be in a relationship. If the two of you are not talking, he has to be talking to other girls. If you really want him back you should talk to him face to face and explain to him exactly how you feel about him. At that point you will know if he shares your passion. If he does not, you need to move on. If you wait around for a guy, you will feel stupid and you will be unhappy and resentful should he decide not to "come around". Take your que from him. Don't see or hear what you want, see things for what they are and you will know what to do. Life is too short to wait around when there are no guarantees.
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Okay. Well, first off, you should never wait for a guy. No matter how long you've dated, if he doesn't want to be with you now, he probably wont later. If he wanted to be with you, he'd be with you now. But, I guess it depends on the reason why he wants to wait till next year. Is he busy? Is he seeing someone? If you guys don't even talk, then how did you keep the connection alive I wonder. Or is it just because you have dated him before for so long.
Yours and his relationship will never exactly be the same as it used to be. So I would guess you should open the connection again. Start talking more, and try getting that closer connection you used to have. Maybe when he sees what he's missing, he'll come crawlin' back. ;D
Good luckkk.
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