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Moving on
I recently started dating a new guy, in a few days it will have been a month. At first I wasn't sure if I should keep dating him because being with him made me miss being with my ex, not because I don't like him, but because I was constantly reminded of what it was like being with my ex. But I decided to stick with him because I didn't think I had given us a fair chance yet, and I assumed it was normal that I was missing my ex and that the feeling would go away soon. Well, it's been this way for a month now and I think I'm missing my ex even more now than I was before. I still talk to my ex, and we're good friends. I just don't know what to do... it's almost more painful being with someone else than being alone :(
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You need to make a decision, it's unfair to this guy that you're still all about your ex, so either get over him or break things off with the current guy. Beating yourself up over nothing isn't worth it ever, so avoid things that cause it.
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I felt this way when i started dating again and he and i had been broken up for 4 or 5 months. The only way i was able to move on and not look back was to cut him completely out of my life. and it worked i haven't been happier. Im engaged now and everything. when he was in my like and i was trying to date i cried a lot i was always depressed. wondering what he was doing. i know you and your ex are friends but if the two of you can't work things out and be together maybe its better to just cut him out and focus on your current relationship. He'd under stand your ex that is.
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Either way single or not you still love him and thats hard. Its good that your daing though it gives you something to take your mind off of him sometimes. I mean if its that bad that you never stop thinking of him honey you need some more time to get over it. You probably jumped back out too soon
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