ok so i met this guy a couple weeks ago and we hung out for the first time this weeekend. we talked alot before we hungout and we like eachother.
so he picked me up and we went to the park so he can have a cig and we just chilled in his car. and im really shy, but hes the only person who doesnt make things awkward. and we just like talked and stuff and then we like cuddled and we hooked up.. if you know what i mean. haha.
but i feel like he used me. he was really cute and stuff and he like told me i gave his stomach butterflys and hes like i cant stop smiling im so happy. and im like aw and stuff. and he said cute stuff. but i feel like theres something missing. he told me he would call me the next day. but he never did. and today was the first time i talked to him in 2 days. but that happens alot cuase he works and he alwaysss skateboards and partys alot and stuff. i feel like he hooked up with me and got what he wanted and then just like doesnt feel the same way.
i really dont know how to explain it but hes out right now. i just hope he feels the same way still cuase he really makes me happpy.
can someone tell me your opinion on this and what i should do?
Additional info, added Tuesday December 9 2008, 12:23 am: oh and he got a parking ticket the other day and he tried hiding it from his mom and he found it so now hes telling me he wont have a car for a long time. i believe it. but i feel like hes making it seem worse then it is to just like try and drift away from me :/
what do you think?. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? karenR answered Tuesday December 9 2008, 7:08 am: Unless Mom took his phone too, I'm going
to guess he won't call and probably won't
be asking you out anytime soon.
To prevent future heartache, don't hook
up with guys you don't know really well,
and certainly not the first time you
hang out with them.
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Tuesday December 9 2008, 3:32 am: you may be over reacting and you are thinking so strongly that he used you tha tyou are going to belive it. ask him. be like i dont want to over react and i know you got your car taken away but i just feel like since that one night somethings different that you dont want to talk to me as much any more.. something like that. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
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