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so i don't know why but i always feel insecure?
people will flirt around with me and be like 'hey babe' or 'hey cutie' and i can't stand it! i never know waht to say to it. it makes me feel like people are just throwing it arond like its nothing-even though it really isn't. i've been hurt before by jerks that have messed around me with and i'm always trying to stay away from relationships.. i always chicken out of going on dates and everything. i don't know what to do or how to get it so i'm not such a chicken and insecure anymore...
any ideas?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Wednesday December 10 2008, 1:30 pm: You are going to get hurt. It's part of the dating thing trust me. But you will meet that guy that sweeps you off your feet. Ever since i had my son i never lost all the weight and my fiance is well skinny but a ton of muscle i kind of feel like why are you with me. That guy of your dreams will love you because of your personality not because of what you look like and my boyfriend hates when i talk down to my self. so cheer up. make your self feel comfortable if you have to. and babe and cutie guys say it to make you feel special they think it makes you feel good. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
hollister_lover09 answered Wednesday December 10 2008, 11:17 am: Well if you don't like it, I don't think it will change. I don't really like it either. But when someone does say it to you just be like "Hey" in a flirty way or not. For the dating part, just go out on them! As long as you know the guy is a good guy, I don't see the harm in it. But if he's known as a "player" then don't. Just keep your eyes open and you'll get lucky!! [ hollister_lover09's advice column | Ask hollister_lover09 A Question ]
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