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Love life? Life question? My goals? man this is tough
Posted Thursday December 11 2008, 5:56 pm
well... im 17, im a guy and i love snowboarding skateboarding, playing guitar and im lonley <(that is NOT a hobby)... picture it like this im the only guy in a class of around 6-8 girls who all have boyfriends (i have no one so i allways feel like iv been kicked down a stump) im coming up to graduation and its been a long 2 years of hard skating action and snowboarding, and sittin alone in my room reminicing of old times with ex girlfriends while staring at the ceiling and playing my guitar off in a dream land thats leading no were... im getting a little tired of it. so iv decided to take my one love to another country, at the moment my only love is for snowboarding,(theres no one in this country that id stay back for except for my frien...
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goodness gracious i'm confused about this boy...
Posted Thursday December 11 2008, 5:54 pm
14/f (sorry this is long!)
okay. normally i'm really good with relationship advice, but apparently i can't help myself with this one. so, there's this guy at my school-we'll call him 'trevor.' so, i have liked trevor since the beginning of the school year. he had a girlfriend-let's call her 'jenny.' jenny is really nice and we talked a little bit. but anyway, i liked trevor but trevor was going out with jenny. well, we flirted a little bit and trevor and i became friends. then, we had a sadie hawkins dance at our school. i went with a guy friend. trevor went with his other friend that's a girl (she couldn't find a date, they're like bro + sis), and jenny went with one of her friends that's a guy. well, trevor had absolutely no fun w...
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Meeting the parents...
Posted Thursday December 11 2008, 4:18 pm
I am 16 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months now. The other day, he invited me over to spend Christmas Eve with him and his family. I've met them before, but never actually sat down and had a meal with them or anything, so I'm pretty nervous.
Any advice/tips on how to make a good impression? =]
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i'm a horrible person
Posted Thursday December 11 2008, 2:53 pm
Ok... so I will start by saying that I thought I had good morals and was a decent person, but that seems to have changed. I fooled around with a co-worker last night, not quite had sex but close enough. Thing is I am in a horrid relationship with a child and he is unhappily married but loves his wife. I was very drunk and him sober...and I believe that alcohol is never an excuse but I also feel like if I was not drinking I would not have made that choice. I feel so incredibly crappy today..really really crappy. I want to do something to make it better which is probably impossible. I cannot tell my boyfriend because he would literally kill me or hurt me very badly. I just really lost all respect for myself and need some advice. pleas...
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how do you show your true self?
Posted Thursday December 11 2008, 12:52 pm
here is my dilemma. basically, i'm a pretty average guy. i'd say on on the shy side and i'm not that cocky or anything. in other words, i dont' try to draw too much attention to myself usually. my issue is that i have some attractive traits. like, i'm a funny guy, a good listener, i'm artistic, poetic, i play guitar very well, i'm an excellent cook. i have all of this positive and interesting things going on about me but i don't know how to let girls know. i'm not the kind of guy to randomly blurt out stuff or try to be a show off. to me that's in bad taste but i still want people to know what they are missing out on. how do you let someone know what you are into and what you are about without seeming cocky or seeming like you are bragging? any ideas would be appreciated.
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I like him, but the age difference is uncomfortable.
Posted Thursday December 11 2008, 12:41 pm
I'm 18/f, and I'm currently being pursued by my friend, let's call him Mike. I used to be head over heels for Mike, and about a year ago we hooked up once or twice. But then we drifted apart. Now he and I are hanging out a lot, and he keeps telling me how amazing and beautiful and smart he thinks i am.. and it's flattering and I really like, him.. except he's 25 years old, and that difference makes me feel uncomfortable.
When we hung out last he tried to kiss me, and I told him that I wasn't ready because I had just gotten out of a really bad relationship (that's true). I've kind of sworn off relationships, especially physical relationships. I'm not interested in sex anymore. He said he understood and he felt pretty bad, but ...
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guys & virginities
Posted Thursday December 11 2008, 3:57 am
i've been wondering... do guys rather consider a girl to be a virgin or a non-virgin to be with them? the thing i've always wondered about is that, if they're a non-virgin... would the guy just try to be with her after he finds out to get some ass?
most people that tells others that they're not virgins anymore, the others don't look at the person any differently. that's what i know.. cause it's all about the personality right? as long as they're not going sleeping around.
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heyy..i need a guy to answer this!! but girls can too (:
Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 11:49 pm
heyy.
so..i've got a very confusing problem..
so there's this guy..and at the begining of the year, he told me that he liked me, but i wasent allowed to date him, cause he's older than i am. so..we stayed friends, and we decided to see how this all turned out..well, i started to REALLY like him latley..and i cant tell if he likes me still or not..so im going to explain his behavior, and you see if it seems like he still likes me or not...
okay..so, he still waits for be after 1st hour to talk to me, and he talks to be in between the classes that we see each other. and sometimes he dosent really talk to me, he might just tap me on the shoulder or something, or tap me on the head. and he kinda puts his hea...
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which should i choose
Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 10:57 pm
F .
i went out with this guy for 2 years, and throughout the whole relationship he was really abusive. he would hurt me physically and mentally so one day i was caught skipping school with him and i knew i would never be allowed to see him again, so i decided to end it. So i went out with this other guy named Patrick but at the same time im not sure who i really want . i love them both but its just confusing cause anthony was such a big deal in my life. I am really confused about what to do. Please help!
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No Grad Date
Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 10:52 pm
17/f
Soo.. I don't have a date for grad - yet anyways. I know I'm attractive and all but I don't have many guy friends and I'm guessing most people would assume I already have one. I don't really care if I get one or not but I don't think I'd refuse if someone asked me. How can I make it evident that I don't have one yet without seeming desperate? There is only one guy I'd really want to go with, but I hardly know him and soo many girls are after him (and he probably won't be around for grad due to sports) so I don't have anyone in mind I'd like to ask to go with me. Thanks!
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Too Soon ?
Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 9:59 pm
Well I recently just got in a relationship. Me and this guy have been best friends for a very long time ; and we started dating two weeks ago. I've been in love before ; my first love break up with me June 1st - this past summer . Jason [ my boyfriend now ] Treats me like a total PRiNCESS! He is just the dream boyfriend. & It's not just the " first starting to date feeling " He's acted this way towards all of his girlfriends . & we kinda just " clicked " from the begining . I think i'm falling for Jason , He's just so great to me ; I have'ent been this happy in the longest & Have'nt been treated will great either in a long time .. idk if i'm just thinking i'm falling for him or if I am ?
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Guy..coincedence? "/
Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 8:27 pm
So there's this guy, that's really friendly and popular and all. He's kind of different / normal. It's hard to explain. Anyway, he basically talks to everybody. I'm homeschooled now so of course I don't talk to him anymore. But when I was in school, when I had classes with him, we'd always talk. He's kind of got a silly personality and he's definitely well liked. But the thing is, now he's like a major jock. And I'm well, haha not much. So I haven't seen him in like two years. I mean, I might have SAW him at a football game recently, but he didn't see me or anything. Anyway, it's not like we have any relationship at all. I've never even considered liking him. So, last night, I had a dream about him. I've been thinking about it ALL day. It w...
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Want to get over someone, but I can't
Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 8:09 pm
From pretty much the beginning of uni until about 3/4 weeks ago I was seeing this guy I lived with. We were relatively coupley and slept together regularly. About a month before it was over I started asking if it was going anywhere and he wouldn't give me a straight answer, we continued to sleep together and then eventually I demanded a straight answer as it was driving me insane. He panicked and ended it.
I still like him an incredible amount. Now it's over he seems to come over and flirt with me excessively every time he's drunk. He never actually tries to make a move though, it's as if he's just flaunting in my face what I can't have. He was flirting incredibly with this other girl the other day right in front of me and to...
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old crush .. awkward now.
Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 6:56 pm
so my sophomore year i saw this really cute junior in my gym class. i told my friend who was his next door neighbor and i gave her a note to give to him saying hat i thought he was cute and i gave him my number .. a few days later, i didnt egt a response, so i decided to take action for myself & i walked up to him & introduced myself & we talked in the hall for like 2 min & then he said he would text me. i was thrilled until he didnt text me all weekend and that week. i asked my friend to ask him what was going on&he said that i was a nice girl, but he liked someone else. i was so disappointed because i really gave my all into something i thought would work, especially since im naturally shy. then in the summer i went up...
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Can we be more than Friends?
Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 5:23 pm
I really like this guy (we are H.S. Seniors) and we go to the same church. At our church we have a band. After school I texted him and told him I was thinking about joining, but my mom works most saturdays (he plays keyboard). He told me to just try to come. I told him that I would but my mom works most saturdays. Then he told me to just try to come this saturday. I told him that My mom can't pick me up til 6 (practice is over at 3:30) and he told me to just stay til 6. Everytime I ask him why he wanted me to join, he always, somehow, avoids the question. There are times when I think that he really likes me, but he doesn't text ppl first and he is very forgetful.(He wants me to help him become unlazy and non forgetful) There are times when ...
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Sex Age/Statuatory Rape
Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 4:39 pm
My little sister is 17 years old and I think she's hooking up with my friend who is 23. I know that they care about each other because they both come to me and talk about it. The only thing I'm worried about as an older sister and best friend is that he could get into a lot of trouble if the wrong person finds out, right? Is the sex age of New York 17 even if the other person is over 21?
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family on me about never having a boyfriend
Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 10:18 am
18 years old female, will be turning 19 in a couple of months.
i'm pretty outgoing, i love meeting new people, i think i am pretty which makes me confident, but not cocky. alot of guys always like me but i never like them back. and if i do have feelings for them too, i push them away. maybe it is because i'm scared to be in a relationship but i am picky, so it's hard for me to find someone i like, and who likes me back. i'm still a virgin, and proud of that and i know it's not a factor in me being single my whole life. my brother is 21 and getting married in a year, and is always making fun of me how i'm going to be single my whole life and i'm never going to find anyone and my parents laugh about it? which makes me feel down on myse...
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To wed or not to wed
Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 9:18 am
Okay, I know this is a seemingly weird question to ask, but I will ask it anyway, and hope that it is only older individuals who can offer helpful answers who will respond. I dated a guy two years ago and have remained very close friends with him since, but we broke up because he could not be as affectionate as I wanted him to be, which drove me crazy. So now I'm thinking about the bigger picture, and how when I'm around him everything else seems to fit when we're friends, and I'm wondering this. Do I consider marrying him in the future because we get along so well but possibly sacrifice a booming sex life? I have to say, when it comes to girls, I'm about the only one who understands him, or who tolerates him, and I know he cares deeply for...
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Help
Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 7:28 am
hey with this guy i asked him if i can sit by him at studyhall and he said you can sit by me if u want to is that good.. lol.. i really like him like i ask him to do things with me and like i asked him to go to this friday night live thing with me and he said he rather play on the computer so like he isnt standing me up right he just wants to play on the computer. i do that 2. but yah thanks and i will rate u.. please help me
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Get to know someone
Posted Tuesday December 9 2008, 11:36 pm
So, there's this guy that I've been interested in for a while. His name is Aaron and he hangs out in the same group of friends as my brother. He knows me and my name and we've talked briefly before, but nothing extensive. Maybe a year or so ago I heard he thought I was cute. How exactly can I start talking to him? I don't have any class with him and he's a year older than I am. We're friends on myspace and I have his cell number but I don't know if it would be too bold to just start texting him. I'm good friends with one of his guy friends, so I might ask his friend what I should do, but I'm not entirely sold on this idea. Help would be appreciated! thanks
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