Question Posted Wednesday December 10 2008, 8:09 pm
From pretty much the beginning of uni until about 3/4 weeks ago I was seeing this guy I lived with. We were relatively coupley and slept together regularly. About a month before it was over I started asking if it was going anywhere and he wouldn't give me a straight answer, we continued to sleep together and then eventually I demanded a straight answer as it was driving me insane. He panicked and ended it.
I still like him an incredible amount. Now it's over he seems to come over and flirt with me excessively every time he's drunk. He never actually tries to make a move though, it's as if he's just flaunting in my face what I can't have. He was flirting incredibly with this other girl the other day right in front of me and today he was talking to me (whilst drunk) about how she gave the impression she liked him and he was going to try and get somewhere. I am pretty sure he knows perfectly well I still like him!
I feel so upset and used and want to get over this guy but I still can't help but like him, he's really funny and smart and good-looking and listens to my problems when I'm upset. But I know he's used me and now he's just mentally manipulating me and I don't know what to do. Can someone help?
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Thursday December 11 2008, 12:50 pm: I was with my ex for sometime we had broken up because he was to controlling. a few months later we started talking again and i was still very much in love with him. He asked if id come over so i did with my son. We hung out i stayed the night at his house and helped with his bday the following day well then after that he had his girlfriend call me and tel me not to call him. i was devasted and depressed for months. i had to cut him out of my life completely to get over him. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
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